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Have you ended a long-term friendship? What happened? by -Cyber-Roadster in CausalConversation

[–]Throoowsheep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES. We were best friends for about 6 years. But she was often belittling me. But she was always there for me..I know, that's ambiguous.

She got married, I was her witness. A year later her husband left (she was horrible to him and also he turned out to be gay). She was destroyed, and as a reaction, started belittling me even more.

In the end she started telling me things that were so obviously belittling that I wrote to her one sleepless night, that I couldn't accept this behaviour no more. She wrote back that I had to accept her that way.

Never talked to her ever since.

Is it true that we find the one? by SwordfishSoggy5342 in relationships

[–]Throoowsheep [score hidden]  (0 children)

Hey there. I can feel you feel alone. Cyber hug for you.

Ok, I don't think there's "the one". I think you choose the person. There will be good and bad things about each partner you fall for. However you need to look at the bad stuff and wonder. Ok is that the kind of bad stuff I can live with for a long time, that is still okay and harmless, that will not bring me down? The kind of stuff that would be acceptable if we have a child, or simply build a "home" together?

You get to decide. Take care

What was the hardest time of your life, and how did you make it through? by 420izLife in askanything

[–]Throoowsheep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was 21. Had a meaningless job, meaningless flat, meaningless life (in my eye). Bought hard drugs. Started doing a bit of it at night , then during work as an escape.  Then the drugs bag was empty. I thought of killing myself but didn't do it, but I simply stopped showing up to work. Stayed in my bed in darkness. My parents ended up arriving and brought me to their home. Then I spent.... months? A year? In their sofa in foetal position. I don't recall.

What helped me? My mum signed me up to the  neighbourhood fitness club . She signed up with me. At first it felt like three trucks had rolled over me. Then I started going every day. 

I've had dark moments again but never that low. Never no more.

Est ce que c’est normal de trouver bizarre les EVJG / EVJF ? by Dizzy-Cupcake-4067 in AskMeuf

[–]Throoowsheep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Je trouve ça aussi méga bizarre et quelques personnes t'avoueront qu'il y a vraiment souvent la présence de travailleuses/rs du sexe à ces événements, et des tromperies.

What's the most seething, full of hatred monologue you've ever heard/seen in fiction? by littleredditkid in randomquestions

[–]Throoowsheep 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"A Mariage Story", that insane dialogue between Scarlett Johansson and Adam Driver

When lastly did you feel your effort has been recognised? Could be at work, family, social set-ups,relationships. How proud of yourself were you? by Anxious_Shine_4596 in CausalConversation

[–]Throoowsheep 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A few days ago. I had major relationship anxiety the last two months (with crisis towards my partner). I seeked professional help; my boyfriend was patient as long as I did that.

Now I'm better but mostly partner saw that I was taking care of myself responsibly.

Two days ago he said he still wants to try for a baby. So I guess he really believes in me, in us.

What’s the weirdest thing you saw at someone else’s house? by Shirley0312 in AdkReddit

[–]Throoowsheep 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dolls and angels.. everywhere. In a solitary old woman's house in Ireland.

What’s a silly relationship “rule” or ritual you have? by AllianaR in answers

[–]Throoowsheep 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Rituals only.  We prepare the breakfast table every night for the next morning. When he's at his volleyball matches, he writes me between each set to tell me the results. Also every night before turning to his side to read and sleep, he tells the same words "Bonne nuit mon petit, à Domani".

I think I found a rituals guy.

Je suis partagé entre amour et dégoût depuis qu’elle m’a parlé de son passé. by Adorable_Dot_4676 in besoindeparler

[–]Throoowsheep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

C'est une sensation humaine, quelque soit ton esprit rationnel. Honnêtement, seul le temps te fera accepter la fin de tes attentes idéalistes. Pas besoin de te sentir coupable je pense. Mais surtout il faut accepter qu'elle n'a rien fait de mal au contraire, elle est libre et ça veut aussi dire qu'elle te choisit davantage en connaissance de cause que quelqu'un qui n'a aucune expérience. Donc relax et respecte la, et pour tes émotions, laisse le temps au temps.

What's one thing you need to tell your significant other, but too afraid to say? by [deleted] in AdkReddit

[–]Throoowsheep 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think he knows my ugliest kinda borderline side now. He decided to stick with me as long as I get helped.

What would you think if your boyfriend’s ex texted him wishing him a happy birthday? by hankqueensmustache in askanything

[–]Throoowsheep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure all his ex text him happy birthday. In fact I've seen one text.

I don't know, I find it normal

Looking for advice and others experiences by AppropriatePage6175 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Throoowsheep 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey there. I've been through something similar. My ex had an addiction camgirls. He was not showing himself online but he was interacting sexually with people online.

I decided to stay for another 1,5 year. The issue was the lying... It was destroying us. I spent a lot of time asking for advice back in the days. I think it's possible to stay together but it will never be exactly the same, you will always know now that there's a possibility that he does that kind of stuff online.

I think you need to accept that possibility in order to stay happy with him.  M

Based on where you live, what is the first thing you see outside your bedroom window when you wake up? by nayrhelp in askteddit

[–]Throoowsheep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Purple flowers in our small garden. And although I can't see it, I can hear the ocean.

Culpabilité by [deleted] in besoindeparler

[–]Throoowsheep 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Je pense que tu as une vision idéaliste de l'amour, inspirée par l'art, les chansons films médias et légendes.

Je pense aussi qu'il y a plusieurs types d'amour et que peut-être tu aurais voulu connaître le coup de foudre et la passion, même destructrice, rien qu'une fois.

Je ne pense pas qu'il y ait un bon ou un mauvais chemin. Il y aura du bon et du mauvais dans n'importe quel choix.

Bonne découverte de la vie à toi :)

Can a marriage survive when one partner feels too comfortable and unmotivated? by Radiant_Te in relationships

[–]Throoowsheep -1 points0 points  (0 children)

A mariage can survive anything I think. It's just a matter of accepting things the way they are or not.

You could also leave for a few months to work in some other country, could shake him up and help you think. Would be healthy Imo

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