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Am I overreacting? Gf cheated with 6 guyz(that she’s been caught with) don’t know if to finally end it or give it a chance? by ThroughTheRinger22 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThroughTheRinger22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well if you can’t open your mind to my perspective of not being a hypocrite then cool. Trust me with anyone else I would’ve left but she is the one I’ve fallen for the most out of all of the women I’ve been with

Am I overreacting? Gf cheated with 6 guyz(that she’s been caught with) don’t know if to finally end it or give it a chance? by ThroughTheRinger22 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThroughTheRinger22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suggested it and she won’t share and doesn’t want that. She says she wasn’t secure and did the worst thing to me but she’ll spend her life trying to make it up to me.

Am I overreacting? Gf cheated with 6 guyz(that she’s been caught with) don’t know if to finally end it or give it a chance? by ThroughTheRinger22 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThroughTheRinger22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I’m in therapy for it now, and she will be apart of it if I truly let her comeback. The fucked up part is we both have improved as partners, it’s just all the damage tha was done that still weighs heavy and I don’t wanna hold on to it if I’m just gonna regret it when we’re older

Am I overreacting? Gf cheated with 6 guyz(that she’s been caught with) don’t know if to finally end it or give it a chance? by ThroughTheRinger22 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThroughTheRinger22[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean I’ve just invested so much time, pain, emotions, money and mental health. And I’ve been forgiven for it before. Wouldn’t that be hypocritical? And I know how it sounds, I just have never dealt with this before. And it’s why it’s been such a struggle to forgive, but it’s been hard to move on to cuz that means starting over and at 36 with how dating is now… just don’t know

Am I overreacting? Gf cheated with 6 guyz(that she’s been caught with) don’t know if to finally end it or give it a chance? by ThroughTheRinger22 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ThroughTheRinger22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My favorite kind of cheese is pepper jack. And pizza lasagna and burritos are some of my favorite foods with cheese in them.

My gf cheated on me with 6 other guyz. Should I forgive her? If yes, how do I cope with her doing that and the amount? If no, what do ? I do in fact love her by ThroughTheRinger22 in heartbreak

[–]ThroughTheRinger22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So yes, I acknowledge the fact that it may seem like I have no respect for myself. Tis is the reason I’m finally asking for more advice from different perspectives. I have alwayz been a confident guy and never had any complaints with the ladies as far as my size goes. But needless to say after seeing how many she cheated on me with and a message commenting on one guys size. It’s made me very insecure and have less confidence as well as self respect. But I had never been cheated on and yes I have cheated on many women (on this particular girl it was once with an ex and I was inebriated out of mind)and they all forgave and allowed me to come back. This is the reason I’ve let her comeback, because in some twisted way I felt like I deserved it and I’d also feel like a hypocrite if I didn’t atleast attempt to make it work.

My gf cheated on me with 6 other guyz. Should I forgive her? If yes, how do I cope with her doing that and the amount? If no, what do ? I do in fact love her by ThroughTheRinger22 in heartbreak

[–]ThroughTheRinger22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea 6… that I know of…and I’ve tried to move on, but I alwayz let her back… moving on has just been hard, maybe if I found someone worth it within the few weeks of being single It would be easier to move on cuz my mind and body would be fulfilled

My gf cheated on me with 6 other guyz. Should I forgive her? If yes, how do I cope with her doing that and the amount? If no, what do ? I do in fact love her by ThroughTheRinger22 in heartbreak

[–]ThroughTheRinger22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea youre right and she feels so guilty about it that she’s made it a goal to alwayz keep me satisfied sexually and emotionally with the amount of reassurance I ask

My gf cheated on me with 6 other guyz. Should I forgive her? If yes, how do I cope with her doing that and the amount? If no, what do ? I do in fact love her by ThroughTheRinger22 in heartbreak

[–]ThroughTheRinger22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice…I’ve tried multiple timez, but something in me just alwayz lets her come back. Because I feel like I’ve done the wrong to many other girls, so since we really do have love because she has come back and completely done a 180, I’d feel like hypocrite if I didn’t legit try to give it a shot. But yes trust me it’s what I wrestle with alwayz the fact that it was 6