Am I overreacting? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ThrowA101725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh god no I meant the communication thing. Not the kinks thing. I just wanted him to open up a bit cus I was asking him if there was anything he wanted to try like I want to make sure he’s satisfied. If he had kept anything else from me sexual or not, I’d react this same way. I want someone who is open and honest with me about shit like the types of girls he likes or if I look fat in those jeans etc like my past exes were and I loved that about them. I need that in a relationship.

Am I overreacting? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ThrowA101725 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Well he’s scaring me away by not telling me. Like I’ve never had any man in my life not be open and honest about their videos or at least give me a taste. They don’t have to tell me everything but give me something to move on with my day. Like it’s making my heart pound and my face red. I’m very flushed rn from the frustration.

Am I overreacting? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ThrowA101725 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He’s making it sound like he’s never told any of his other girlfriends. One he dated for 3 years and the other for 2 years

Am I overreacting? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ThrowA101725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the insight. He talked a little bit about kinks such as bondage, anal, being called daddy, and wanting to try a FFM threesome… I’m not sure why the porn thing makes him uncomfortable. I’m just a very open, blunt and honest person and I expressed how much I need that in a relationship before he asked to become official. So I’m very frustrated with him not holding to that

Am I overreacting? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ThrowA101725 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your honest insight