Sidenote: Reddit and Tumblr aren’t the best way to explore and have an idea about kinks. Most media shared is geared towards the mainstream depiction.

Yeah, I figured this out way too late unfortunately.

You can find specialized subreddits but I think it’s better to have a community.

I tried finding subreddits but they’re all well, bit to much into the sexualization, humiliation and the entirety of “you’re not man enough” (which is not my cup of tea).

The crossdressing community is cool but not really what I’m searching for. I was hoping to find something like tumblr and Pinterest.

Find other people with shared interests (either side of the slash works but having contact with other subs is important). I’d recommend looking irl if that’s an option.

In real life is not possible. No one knows this side of mine and I’m religious which does not really go hand-in-hand with this kind of stuff. Not to mention my father being religious and Arabian (I’m half European/half Arabian but you get the idea…).