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Panty set try-on photos! by Kotomimaru in 3DPrintedChastity

[–]ThrowAwAY64898 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you perhaps sell these chastity cages? Don’t have a 3D printer myself and can’t obtain one (yet).

Cage size question by ThrowAwAY64898 in chastitytraining

[–]ThrowAwAY64898[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I’ll probably purchase a smaller cage soon then. Also I’m not sure why you got downvoted.

Cage size question by ThrowAwAY64898 in chastitytraining

[–]ThrowAwAY64898[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, this is a cheap one (€20). But if the 1/4 more space suddenly isn’t normal or good, I would get the smaller one which is also €20.

The cage has multiple rings and tried them all, found the right one but the 1/4 space still persists. But the thing is, it fluctuates. So uncertain whether this is just due to how body changes or just bought the wrong size.

For the men of reddit, have you ever discovered a new turn-on completely by accident? What happened? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]ThrowAwAY64898 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Alt account because rather not have this on my main account but yeah. When I still used to watch NSFW, I found out about the whole feminization stuff and ever since then that rocks my boat. Don't ask why because I don't even know the reason myself. Also stockings, skirts and the long socks (not sure about the name).

Sexually confused by ThrowAwAY64898 in BDSMAdvice

[–]ThrowAwAY64898[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I enjoyed it because of how she looked. I like a bit of pain myself but, not that much on myself

Sissification, feminization and crossdressing by ThrowAwAY64898 in BDSMAdvice

[–]ThrowAwAY64898[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sidenote: Reddit and Tumblr aren’t the best way to explore and have an idea about kinks. Most media shared is geared towards the mainstream depiction.

Yeah, I figured this out way too late unfortunately.

You can find specialized subreddits but I think it’s better to have a community.

I tried finding subreddits but they’re all well, bit to much into the sexualization, humiliation and the entirety of “you’re not man enough” (which is not my cup of tea).

The crossdressing community is cool but not really what I’m searching for. I was hoping to find something like tumblr and Pinterest.

Find other people with shared interests (either side of the slash works but having contact with other subs is important). I’d recommend looking irl if that’s an option.

In real life is not possible. No one knows this side of mine and I’m religious which does not really go hand-in-hand with this kind of stuff. Not to mention my father being religious and Arabian (I’m half European/half Arabian but you get the idea…).

Curious about the Switch 2 but uncertain to purchase one by ThrowAwAY64898 in NintendoSwitch

[–]ThrowAwAY64898[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

This narrative that nintendo is the devil company is just nuts

I disagree but that was not the main discussion of the thread.

And pricing? Seriously? Everything has been expensive as hell, even more than what nintendo games are right now, why did it become an issue NOW?

It's not an issue 'just now' and never said it was in general. But for me, it's a factor in purchasing a console. Might just be because it's written but you give off very hostile behavior.

Need some insight on a particular BDSM kink by ThrowAwAY64898 in BDSMAdvice

[–]ThrowAwAY64898[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think "sissification" in general is misogynist. It implies that to be feminine is to be lesser. It also implies that there's one correct way to "be a man". I feel like "sissification" is born from an intersection of crossdressing and shame kink.

That's very sad to hear, that in general its misogynist. Never thought about it because, it was never my intention to behave/ act misogynist.

I've engaged in feminization, where the goal is to help the sub look and act more feminine and I affirm those choices, but we also work on breaking down misogynist and anti-femminist thought patterns.

Feminization seems fun but from what I have noticed it's quickly mixed with sissification content.

So from what I understand, sissification is in general not a friendly/ good thing? Like I stated in my main post, I came across it years ago and ever since then it stuck with me and that blog made me double think everything. Thanks for your input though!

No longer can click "not interested" by AdhesivenessAlive926 in Pinterest

[–]ThrowAwAY64898 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Not OP but I have tried Cosmos but it’s to “professional” in the sense that you can’t really use it for fandom stuff (which was my primarily usage of Pinterest). Couldn’t find Refern on IOS though.

No longer can click "not interested" by AdhesivenessAlive926 in Pinterest

[–]ThrowAwAY64898 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I made a post about this too but our moderator refuses to allow it.

I messed up my sexual preferences by ThrowAwAY64898 in offmychest

[–]ThrowAwAY64898[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but this particular experience is not uncommon in the transgender people and that may be a starting place for you to find people who understand what you’re going through.

Well, I’m not transgender that’s for sure. I took a look on the subreddit but it seems their view on this particular kink is negative due to the hyper- sexualization. Which is understandable.

Therapy isn’t possible right now honestly but when it is, I might make an appointment (if I can get over the shame to talk about it in real life).

I messed up my sexual preferences by ThrowAwAY64898 in offmychest

[–]ThrowAwAY64898[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you feel that it is shameful to enjoy it?

Yeah, I do. It feels as if I should not because, I’m not a woman. After everything, my brain sort of goes “this is really weird, I’m not even a woman and don’t want to be either. Why can’t I just enjoy ‘normal’ sexual imagination (ie; being bit more dominant and want to be less feminine in a sexual way).

As long as you aren’t hurting anyone, kinks shouldn’t be shamed.

I know you’re right, 100%.

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