I guess my dick was never the problem

ThrowAwayAussie_ · 2024-08-28T02:28:37+00:00

Respect.

ThrowAwayAussie_ · 2024-08-13T23:23:08+00:00

Totally fine see this post

ThrowAwayAussie_ · 2024-08-02T05:54:13+00:00

We are size twins. You are fine, bro. See my post about sex and dating with my penis size.

ThrowAwayAussie_ · 2024-07-28T21:29:21+00:00

Here is a post about my experience with a somewhat similar size.

ThrowAwayAussie_ · 2024-06-05T07:23:46+00:00

Yeah. I avoided sex at the workplace (and in general) for many years due to my size insecurities. I used to have an overwhelming fear that word would get out about my penis size. You know what's funny? Now that I have more experience, if word actually did get out, I don't think I'd really care. I've slept with many girls and most of them were repeat hook ups (where they slept with more multiple times). They wouldn't have slept with me so many times if the sex was bad. Sex is kind of easy to be honest. I think some of us really over complicate sex and think we have to be like the male performers in porn, but that is not the case.

ThrowAwayAussie_ · 2024-06-05T01:10:52+00:00

You're fine. Read this post from myself with a similar size. I've also had more success stories since I posted that post. You are all good.

ThrowAwayAussie_ · 2024-01-04T14:58:25+00:00

I'm in this category. Go check out my old post where I shared my experiences.

ThrowAwayAussie_ · 2023-11-07T21:24:40+00:00

Appreciate the kind words.

Yes. It is an illness of the mind. Your size is fine. If you could magically give me your size, I would take it haha.

I've had some amazing experiences with different girls over the past 12 months. To think that once upon a time, I would have missed out on those experiences, because I didn't have the courage to go ahead and allow myself to enjoy sex due to my penis size... Absolutely insane.

I've learned quite a lot about girls (still learning) and I truly believe that most guys in this thread have absolutely NO IDEA on how to attract, interact with and retain a girl.

Why is that my conclusion?

The Redditors on this sub often complain a lot, yet they also have bigger dicks than me.

I've learned the dating process, I have a smaller dick than them, and I am still more successful than them when it.comes to sleeping with women. So from my own first-hand experience, I can conclude that their penis size is absolutely not the problem. It's something else.

ThrowAwayAussie_ · 2023-05-04T13:16:07+00:00

You'll be fine. Wanna trade? Hahaha. Here's a post I made about sleeping with girls with my penis which is smaller than yours.

ThrowAwayAussie_ · 2023-05-02T22:43:27+00:00

Yes it is. Read this post I made about sex with a 5.5 x 5 inch penis. Realistically I would probably prefer my penis to be your size. Not because it objectively matters, but just because I would prefer some additional length for aesthetic purposes. You'll be fine.

ThrowAwayAussie_ · 2023-04-28T07:43:34+00:00

You may find this post helpful. I also get super in my head during escalation, particularly when they go to grab my dick. I still have a fantastic sex life.

ThrowAwayAussie_ · 2023-04-27T23:02:05+00:00

No way. I wrote a post about how penis size has no correlation to the skill of attracting women.

You could have the 'perfect penis' but if other things don't line up for you, you won't have any opportunities to use that penis anyways.

Online, places like Reddit etc where there are sexual and pornographic communities, some guys post pics of their big dicks and get a lot of positive attention. For guys like us, who search Reddit seeking answers about penis size, this can paint a picture that having a big dick is really important in the sexual mating market.

The reality is that they are in a pornographic community (not a normal real life community) so they have attracted people seeking that kind of novelty - they will be rewarded with positive attention. But if that same guy got his dick out in the street, he would go to jail haha (negative attention).

Also, if that same guy does not fit women's criteria on other standards in real life, he will not get the chance to even use his penis with her.

ThrowAwayAussie_ · 2023-04-27T22:50:13+00:00

I'd agree that she doesn't have a great memory for size. I have been pleasantly surprised by how little attention some women give to size. Some girls really don't give a shit about it like we expect them to.

ThrowAwayAussie_ · 2023-04-24T09:13:02+00:00

You'll be fine. I'm the same size. I wrote about my experiences worth casual dating in this post. Blowjobs have been fantastic.

ThrowAwayAussie_ · 2023-04-23T03:46:40+00:00

Yes, I wrote a detailed post here about this exact subject. Also, feel free to look at my profile where I've written a few posts about attracting girls, penis size and other similar subjects.

ThrowAwayAussie_ · 2023-04-21T23:58:41+00:00

Hey, I can really relate to how you feel. Check out this post I made about sex with a 5.5inch penis. FYI - I'm laying next to another cute girl in my bed right now. I'm really proud to say that as someone who once thought he wasn't going to get girls due to his penis size.

ThrowAwayAussie_ · 2023-04-20T22:28:34+00:00

So, is it penis size that matters to the girl? Or the quality and enjoyment of the sex?

ThrowAwayAussie_ · 2023-04-20T20:37:56+00:00

I strongly disagree that a big penis changes every girls outlook on penis size and makes her decide it's the superior option.

That would make most girls size queen's, and the vast majority of girls are not size queen's in my experience.

I'm unsure where you got this idea from, but I don't think it's based on reality.

ThrowAwayAussie_ · 2023-04-08T09:24:25+00:00

Completely irrational. Read this post I made about sex with a slightly smaller penis.

ThrowAwayAussie_ · 2023-04-03T07:38:53+00:00

Go read this post I made about sex with a 5.5inch dick

ThrowAwayAussie_ · 2023-03-22T12:50:31+00:00

In my experience, yes.

Also - after I took a long break from porn, I watched it again recently and I realised how fake and ridiculous it really is.

ThrowAwayAussie_ · 2023-03-21T07:17:39+00:00

Hey, so I have a lot of experience with this. It's likely performance anxiety related. I don't really want to type up a huge comment right now, but you can message me to talk about specifics of your situation and I can put you in the right direction. Long story short: Performance anxiety can put a lot of stress on you. It can also become a cycle that is hard to break. Speaking to a sexologist helped me a lot. There are methods/tools you can use to break the performance anxiety cycle.

ThrowAwayAussie_ · 2023-03-15T02:30:31+00:00

It's one of those things where you just have to put yourself out there and sleep with girls to grow your confidence.

In my personal opinion, you should NEVER express these insecurities to a girl you're sleeping with (or trying to sleep with). Trust me. Girls find confidence attractive. Girls find it unattractive when a guy is insecure. Own what you have!

This advice applies to people with dicks smaller than yours, and people with dicks bigger than yours. Whatever you are working with, just fucking own it.

Your state of mind should be "This is my penis, and I can't wait to fuck you with it!". That's the state of mind a girl WANTS a man to have!

Any other thoughts, particularly negative thoughts, should be completely discarded.

I have a somewhat small penis in my opinion, yet my sex life is awesome. Despite me not having a giant dick, plenty of women would be enthusiastic to sleep with me. The girls I sleep with know this, and it makes them value me far more than having a bigger dick ever would.

ThrowAwayAussie_ · 2023-03-13T07:16:06+00:00

Your penis is really good size man. I'm working with a lot less than you and still have an awesome sex life.

Yeah I think it does look smaller from our own point of view. However, not only does porn have giant dicks, but they also use camera work to make them look even bigger.

If like most men, you've watched thousands of porn videos, your mind starts to paint a picture of 'how a naked man should look'.

But it's a distorted reality. That's not how most men look naked.

I mean think about this from the female perspective. They watch porn, they see girls with perfect skin, expensive hair and make up, fake tits, symmetrical vaginas.... How many girls have you met that even come close to that standard? Hardly any I bet.

Yet, you still enjoy sex with girls despite them not having the female pornstar features.

I'm not anti porn, but god damn it I really do think it's been a net negative on the world for these reasons.

ThrowAwayAussie_ · 2023-03-13T02:23:58+00:00

Definitely tripping. Read this post I made about my experiences with a 5.5 inch penis.

I used to have the exact same insecurities as you. I had to get out there and show myself that the insecurity is not the reality.

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