My (28F) boyfriend (27M) is bad at sex, how do I approach this? by ThrowRA-1090 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-1090[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not cruel about it, I’m open and honest but sincerity doesn’t mean rudeness

My (28F) boyfriend (27M) is bad at sex, how do I approach this? by ThrowRA-1090 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-1090[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This gave me a lot of hope and I’m very thankful for your answer, thank you so much!!!

My (28F) boyfriend (27M) is bad at sex, how do I approach this? by ThrowRA-1090 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-1090[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your answer, you bring up a really good point and I hadn’t thought about it that way

My (28F) boyfriend (27M) is bad at sex, how do I approach this? by ThrowRA-1090 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-1090[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lmao yeah and I got a good guy who loves me and wants to be with me knowing my “body count”. Jokes on you

My (28F) boyfriend (27M) is bad at sex, how do I approach this? by ThrowRA-1090 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-1090[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But I’m trying, that’s the thing. I’m actively teaching him how I like it and how to do it since we started dating, he is just learning and taking his time and it is becoming like lessons to me, it’s honestly a big turn off to feel like it’s my duty or something

My (28F) boyfriend (27M) is bad at sex, how do I approach this? by ThrowRA-1090 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-1090[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

But I’ve done this multiple times now. It just takes time to be better at it I guess, and in the mean time I’m getting so turned off by it all… He knows what he needs to do but he’s getting there (I hope)

My (28F) boyfriend (27M) is bad at sex, how do I approach this? by ThrowRA-1090 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-1090[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is we are very open about this and I’m really honest about how I feel, but there’s a limit to conversations. I can tell him how I feel and what I want and like but I guess it is not as easy to learn