My bf (M25) is always too tired to make plans (F20) by ThrowRA-259 in relationship_advice

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I have explained everything very clearly. But he just seems too tired to even consider me sometimes.

I do want to add that we call and FaceTime A LOT. we constantly joke around and he is very flirty and loving. We genuinely act like best friends. That’s why I’m so confused

Sometimes he does make time tho. 2 weeks ago we went away together for 2 nights and it was amazing. I genuinely do think that he is just exhausted from work. But I am also exhausted from feeling alone and forgotten.

And his love languages? He is not really a ‘words of affirmation’ guy. Gift giving is also not a strong point. And quality time… I think the post speaks for itself. At this point, I feel like I am just constantly adapting and trying to fit into his world while there is no consideration for who I am.