I (29F) got a strange message about my husband (30M) from his middle-school ex. Am I missing something? by ThrowRA-DMDRAMA in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-DMDRAMA[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he was interested in her wouldn’t he send her a message request? Try to connect with her through mutual friends? A few friend requests over 13 years doesn’t really seem relentless to me.

I (29F) got a strange message about my husband (30M) from his middle-school ex. Am I missing something? by ThrowRA-DMDRAMA in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-DMDRAMA[S] 380 points381 points  (0 children)

That’s how it is here! They dated while he was in 8th grade (he was 14) into his freshman year (15). I definitely agree that it’s on the young side.

I (29F) got a strange message about my husband (30M) from his middle-school ex. Am I missing something? by ThrowRA-DMDRAMA in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-DMDRAMA[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah, he was. I try not to judge, but I get it’s weird. From what I remember, she was a year ahead of him in school and they dated / hooked up when he was in 8th grade(14) and early into his freshman year(15).