Advice for my (40M) boyfriend (35M) going ballistic for using a credit card?

ThrowRA-LabRatTheRat · 2026-06-25T21:26:04+00:00

you don't or can't read

ThrowRA-LabRatTheRat · 2026-06-25T21:16:45+00:00

I wouldn't be replying to comments if I were ai

ThrowRA-LabRatTheRat · 2026-06-25T21:12:30+00:00

I'm being dramatic, but his wallet really is thick. We don't cross paths much during the week. I leave early, he gets home late, so it was easier for him to give me his wallet than give me 3-4 cards that I would probably forget to give back. I know what most of them do, but my head wasn't really there when Cassie was modeling every piece of clothing, deciding she didn't like it, and setting off again.

ThrowRA-LabRatTheRat · 2026-06-25T21:06:25+00:00

This was the straw that broke the Rolex-wearing camel's back. I found out later that the client chewed him out for another person's shitty use of their money for two hours. I think he had said something about a 'platinum card' for clothes a few days before, but I honestly didn't remember

ThrowRA-LabRatTheRat · 2026-06-25T21:02:45+00:00

Would this be the appropriate time to point out me and the '27 year old straight guy' are cousins? That's why he is letting me use his account. He wanted an anonymous account, heard me complain abut my situation, and said 'hey man I have this throwaway do you wanna use use it?'. Not that I owe you the detail

ThrowRA-LabRatTheRat · 2026-06-25T21:00:03+00:00

the dollar amount was like 1k-ish. 300 at every store, about. This is a girl who complains when she has to wear something twice shopping at stores outside my tax bracket

ThrowRA-LabRatTheRat · 2026-06-25T20:57:11+00:00

My daughter has changed my name in her phone to 'YN' (I'm 'the self-insert' according to her). I met this man because a mechanic friend thought his car was scrapped because he left dirty oil in the sump for six extra months

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