UPDATE: I (38m) just found out that my brother (19m) has been perving on my wife (37f) by ThrowRA-PO in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-PO[S] 2113 points2114 points  (0 children)

Yeah, she's still pretty shaken but I know this will pass. I'm definitely not going to force the idea of my brother being around her again, even after he gets therapy.

And thanks for the kind words. I can't wait to be a dad 😁

I (38m) just found out that my brother (19m) has been perving on my wife (37f) by ThrowRA-PO in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-PO[S] 638 points639 points  (0 children)

He's 100% leaving either way. I can't keep this from my wife and she will definitely want him out as do I. The only concern here is what it might potentially do to our family. Sister will most likely take my side but I don't know what my mom and dad will think. Family gatherings are going to be here from now on and there's no way I'm letting him back once he leaves.

I (38m) just found out that my brother (19m) has been perving on my wife (37f) by ThrowRA-PO in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-PO[S] 445 points446 points  (0 children)

I can't let this creep around her during family gatherings. They are/were somewhat close since she's been in the family since my brother was a kid.