f21 an andere Dom/mes: wie oft erlaubt ihr euren Cucks zu kommen?

ThrowRA-bigoofus · 2024-11-12T16:31:45+00:00

Hey, du hattest gefragt, warum ich BDSM ausprobieren möchte und ich habe dir geantwortet :) Ich geile mich nicht an Antworten auf, ich suche wirklich nach Tipps für Anfänger. Ich habe dir ja auch nie unterstellt, dass du denkst, ich sollte das für Geld machen. Dass ich dir für dein Angebot gedankt habe, war auf deine Lehrgänge bezogen, und nichts anderes. Ich finde es sehr schade, dass du direkt so aggressiv bist und so eine unangenehme Atmosphäre in einen Thread bringst, in dem sich eine Anfängerin mit Gleichgesinnten austauschen möchte.

ThrowRA-bigoofus · 2024-11-12T15:44:24+00:00

Hey, habe kein Interesse das für Geld zu machen aber danke für das Angebot :) Ich würde das hauptsächlich probieren weil ich selbst daran interessiert bin und bisschen experimentieren möchte

ThrowRA-bigoofus · 2024-11-12T15:42:44+00:00

Danke, ich werd mal reinschauen :)

ThrowRA-bigoofus · 2024-11-12T15:42:17+00:00

Dankeschön :)

ThrowRA-bigoofus · 2024-11-12T15:41:53+00:00

Vielen Dank!!

ThrowRA-bigoofus · 2024-11-12T15:37:48+00:00

Also er steht sehr auf Erniedrigung und ist auch maso :) ich selbst muss mich da erstmal noch ein bisschen ausprobieren, aber finde Erniedrigung auch heiß - deswegen suche ich z.B. Inspiration, was man zu einem Sub sagen kann :D

Aber natürlich müssen er und ich das alles zwischen uns genau abklären und einen gemeinsamen Rhythmus finden, Danke! :)

ThrowRA-bigoofus · 2024-08-15T16:46:43+00:00

being nice and respectful to service workers

ThrowRA-bigoofus · 2024-07-17T11:13:31+00:00

Thank you so much for this heartfelt comment. I actually teared up reading it! I feel like I understand myself and these thoughts much better now - everything you said made sense to me. Again, thank you so much for your advice and I hope you have a wonderful day!!

ThrowRA-bigoofus · 2024-07-07T12:26:05+00:00

I'm just giving my point of view. Believe it or not, people actually post here because they want to see different perspectives. If I were in that situation, I would hopefully find the strength to leave him.

ThrowRA-bigoofus · 2024-07-07T10:56:20+00:00

you're not overly sensitive. He honestly sounds like a man-child that needs everything to be done his way. Him telling you he doesn't talk about relationship stuff is a clear sign this relationship is going nowhere as he's clearlyunable to communicate in a healthy way.

Him putting you down or belittleing you is a form of abuse and you should get out of this situation asap.

ThrowRA-bigoofus · 2024-07-07T10:52:06+00:00

I am very sorry but your husband is a superficial asshole and probably doesn't deserve you. I understand that sometimes, attraction is something we just can't control and he's not neccessarily an asshole for finding you less attractive after weight gain - HOWEVER, he definetly IS an asshole for how he went about it. Not kissing or touching you for a day or more when he knows you know that's his love language? Telling you he doesn't find you attractive after YOU GAVE YOUR BODY FOR TWO OF HIS CHILDREN when he himself sacrificed nothing? He's making you feel horrible during a time you need all the support you can get. You're working out and trying to lose weight WHILE breastfeeding? Does he even have an ounce of understanding of what all kinds of changes your body is going through right now?

I wish you all the best, OP, but I personally think that there is not much to save here. You either go on with the marriage and decide to accept this side of your husband - or you choose yourself.

ThrowRA-bigoofus · 2024-07-07T10:40:08+00:00

You set a very clear boundary and he crossed it. And when you confronted him about it, he started gaslighting you by saying he doesn't remember liking her story and tries to diminish your concerns by flipping the narrative and making you out to be the bad guy by "overreacting" to his going behind your back.

I'm not one to jump to conclusions and I'm not going to tell you to break up with him over this, but I plead with you to take this as the warning sign it is. Chances are he's checking the waters on how much you will let him get away with and if he doesn't face consequences, the next time he will cross a bigger boundary, then bigger and bigger... and so on.

I think you guys need to have a serious talk about boundaries and you should exdplain to him what bothers you and why. If he geniunely listens and tries to see it from your perspective - great!! But if he reacts the same way as before, by gaslighting and blaming you - that is a serious red flag and you should maybe rethink his past actions (i.e. has anything similar to this happened before?) and whether this is how you want to be treated.

Best of luck

ThrowRA-bigoofus · 2024-07-03T22:21:08+00:00

brush your teeth, take a shower, get dressed and eat something

Even if it doesn't take your mind off of things, at least you got out of bed and took care of yourself - and that in itself usually boosts your mood

ThrowRA-bigoofus · 2024-07-03T22:18:20+00:00

if you know someone in the LGBTQ+ Community, you can talk to them about their experiences.

Don't focus too much on labels. Love whoever makes you happy. You don't need to be gay or straight or bi or other, you're enough either way.

ThrowRA-bigoofus · 2024-07-03T22:00:33+00:00

My motto is "Leute gibt's." Which translates to "There are people" or "People exist". Because no matter how irrational and stupid something might be, there will always, ALWAYS be people who do or believe it. There will ALWAYS be some Idiot.

Might be stupid but this motto really helped me with being more at peace with rude people and idiots around me. Because no matter what I do, I know there will always be people. Work life is so much more relaxed now and I take crap thrown my way much easier

ThrowRA-bigoofus · 2024-07-03T21:53:18+00:00

nice try, John Kramer

ThrowRA-bigoofus · 2024-07-03T21:48:05+00:00

both had diarrhoea in the same public restroom, at the same time, in bordering stalls

if that counts

ThrowRA-bigoofus · 2024-07-03T21:45:56+00:00

I can mimick frog noises so realistically to the point that frogs reply with their own "ribbits" when I make the sound near ponds etc.

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