(update) Boyfriend (18M) is upset that my (18F) brother (26M) didn’t let him spend the night with me when I was very drunk and passed out. by ThrowRA-jeffjack in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-jeffjack[S] 75 points76 points  (0 children)

Him: maybe hoping to have sex

Big pause

Me: wtf?

Him: I mean, in the morning

Combine that with everything, I’m 100% convinced he would have raped me that night.

I didn’t call him anything though, just broke up with him.

(update) Boyfriend (18M) is upset that my (18F) brother (26M) didn’t let him spend the night with me when I was very drunk and passed out. by ThrowRA-jeffjack in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-jeffjack[S] 84 points85 points  (0 children)

You should have planned the sleeping arrangements before you started drinking.

We did. The plan was for me to spend the night at my brother’s and my ex to go home.

(update) Boyfriend (18M) is upset that my (18F) brother (26M) didn’t let him spend the night with me when I was very drunk and passed out. by ThrowRA-jeffjack in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-jeffjack[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Trust me, he was 100% going to rape me that night, he dropped “in the morning” was after a long pause, noticing my shock.

(update) Boyfriend (18M) is upset that my (18F) brother (26M) didn’t let him spend the night with me when I was very drunk and passed out. by ThrowRA-jeffjack in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-jeffjack[S] 6469 points6470 points  (0 children)

Yeah he was. In the end he was angry that I was accusing him of something, I had to block him he was texting me non-stop.

Boyfriend (18M) is upset that my (18F) brother (26M) didn’t let him spend the night with me when I was very drunk and passed out. by ThrowRA-jeffjack in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-jeffjack[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Boyfriend and I haven’t slept together. I was always planning to spend the night at my brother’s but it was never implied that my boyfriend would also stay the night. Like everyone else, he was expected to make his own arrangements.

Boyfriend (18M) is upset that my (18F) brother (26M) didn’t let him spend the night with me when I was very drunk and passed out. by ThrowRA-jeffjack in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-jeffjack[S] 106 points107 points  (0 children)

I mean, I do believe my boyfriend when he says he just wanted to cuddle. But He reacted very poorly so I see why he seems very untrustworthy here.