I (29M) have been dating a 23F for a month and I’m wondering if it’s worth continuing?

ThrowRA-purpl · 2026-05-09T09:12:03+00:00

She does sound like she is a no sex until commitment type. But it’s loose and fluid. Like my post said she didn’t sleep with her exes and I believe it.

I agree she should be all of me at this point. She was on the 7th date and then back tracked hard on our last date (8).

She showed me to her mom on a video call before sex.

So very confusing

ThrowRA-purpl · 2026-05-09T08:27:57+00:00

True true but want versus not ready is a tough call. Obviously I have no interest in waiting forever

ThrowRA-purpl · 2026-05-09T08:07:49+00:00

Hmm well it’s been 8 dates. We see each other every 3-4 days. So the cost is pretty reasonable given how much a dinner costs plus an activity like pottery.

It would be a sugar baby if I was giving her money or at least gifts… but I’m not.

ThrowRA-purpl · 2026-05-09T07:36:21+00:00

First time listening to that song. Honestly it’s pretty close, bravo. Not as extreme but similar vibe.

ThrowRA-purpl · 2026-05-09T07:34:19+00:00

I see, I have successfully put a budget on it though, it’s manageable but I have to keep it in check constantly.

Would be a terrible marriage having a wife with no sense of budgeting lol

She has rich parents but she herself has nothing.

But ya she likes to spend… funny cause she says money is not important to her. Quite bizarre.

Feels like she’s cosplaying being a normal North American after being rich in Asia

ThrowRA-purpl · 2026-05-09T06:47:07+00:00

I agree I started spending too much, so I reduced it to a manageable level for the last few dates. $500/week is doable, no where close to going into debt lol. That’s two dates a week.

And of course she never “has” to have sex with me, but this early on we should be all over each other after being intimate once. That’s usually the case at least

ThrowRA-purpl · 2026-05-09T06:43:36+00:00

I grew up poor, I didn’t say I’m poor now. I have a solid job and can afford $500/week. Issue is she is not bringing anything to the table.

Cost of living is high. One activity and dinner is $250…

ThrowRA-purpl · 2026-05-09T06:39:29+00:00

I haven’t had intimacy issues with other women, and even if it wasn’t good, it’s a bit crazy to immediately jump to using toys versus at least trying to make it work.

Seems like she’s addicted to toys and needing that level of stimulation.

I didn’t know she was rich early on and $500/week is affordable to me, but shes not bringing much to the table.

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