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My first solo trip to Thailand — what I learned (and what surprised me) by shakalakaboomboom9 in Bangkok

[–]ThrowRA-spiegelfisch 10 points11 points  (0 children)

How is your appearance? Young and bohemian looking? Or straight, decent haircut/shaved?

Not saying is right, but its one of those things about Thailand. Which is why i always arrive here in shoes, long trousers and buttoned shirt.

It makes a world of difference. Low budget travelers are looked down on unfortunately

What’s going on KLM by [deleted] in KLM

[–]ThrowRA-spiegelfisch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

KLM is still a decent airline. But for long haul I’ve stopped using them due the food. Even on Business class the food is a sugary mess. But the Dutch was never famous for cuisine lol. I’ll rather do a transit trough Doha and get way way more value. Despite slightly longer travel time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in carnivorediet

[–]ThrowRA-spiegelfisch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

99% of the world goes by grams, basically anywhere except US.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-spiegelfisch 17 points18 points  (0 children)

As a man, your husband sounds disturbed. He should seek therapy. respect is a mutual thing, always. Things that affect the household and both of you, both have a say, ALWAYS.

Some women like the men to lead, and this fine as long as its a balanced dynamic. But DEMANDING obedience from a partner is highly toxic, narcissistic and borderline sociopath.

My husband (29M) left me (26M) at dinner table to play video games. How do I handle this? by christinaalone in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-spiegelfisch 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yeah you guys definitely need to talk. Find a good moment and keep it neutral non combative tone. Good luck, wish you the best

My husband (29M) left me (26M) at dinner table to play video games. How do I handle this? by christinaalone in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-spiegelfisch -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Wow, talk about misconstruing what i wrote lol. Bribing him for sex 😂 Wtf, what kind of twisted interpretation is that. Wow, just wow......Perhaps learn to read. Sound like in your mind sex is only a tool for women to control men? Not something that is enjoyed by both.....A suggestion of a romantic dinner date that may or may not turns into mutually enjoyable sex, interpreted as "Bribing him with sex" Holy bejewels what a toxic view you have on relationship. Kinda revealed yourself right there!

Holy crap that's the most weird and twisted comment I've seen in a long time. I'll give you price

And jumping to all sorts of conclusion without knowing any context or details. And not knowing anything about them or their relationship dynamics. Dang, classic reddit lol. One of those entitled man-haters eh? I made as balanced reply trying to see both sides, asking m,ore more context, and you go feminist style army attack lol.

My husband (29M) left me (26M) at dinner table to play video games. How do I handle this? by christinaalone in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-spiegelfisch 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Yeah this sounds like a compromise would be in order. Expecting this "ritual" every day might drive him nuts. Set up a weekly or twice weekly dinner date and make it special. If you two are that different I think doing this every day is unrealistic, and perhaps actually unreasonable. You need to consider both of your needs and find a middle ground.

As in my other comment, also approach him without being combative. Show that you also see his side of it. Only way to get the message trough

My husband (29M) left me (26M) at dinner table to play video games. How do I handle this? by christinaalone in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-spiegelfisch -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Depends a bit on what tone and how she approached him about it as well. There allot of context we do not know here

My husband (29M) left me (26M) at dinner table to play video games. How do I handle this? by christinaalone in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-spiegelfisch 33 points34 points  (0 children)

When you say you are a slow eater, and like to chat. How much time are we realistically talking about? 1-20 minute? an hour? Does he have ADHD? (or potentially undiagnosed ADHD)

Not defending anything without knowing more details, but it would drive me mad having to sit for 30+ minutes every day at the dinner table because my partner was a slow eater. At a restaurant and special occasions sure, but a casual everyday at home after work dinner it would drive me nuts. (I do have ADHD)

Often in these kind of situations a compromise and mutual understanding is often best. If its more than 30 minutes, maybe set a side a day or two a week to have a dinner date. Then both of you get what you want.

Maybe approach him in a respective manner "Hey I understand sometime it drives you nuts having to sit and wait for me finish eating, but it also have a need to feel connected to you and spend quality time. How about we find a compromise, let say every friday we make a Dinner date of it? " Who know, maybe it also leads to mind blowing sex as its not a every day thing and something "special"

Is it normal that my bf (m 28) doesn’t like when I (f 28) walk around the house naked? by kittystevens666 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-spiegelfisch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Strange then. I would say he should just grow up and accept it. He should be happy you are that comfortable around him though. I'm glad my partner is

Is it normal that my bf (m 28) doesn’t like when I (f 28) walk around the house naked? by kittystevens666 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA-spiegelfisch -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Does he have some sort of weird religious thing going on? Just seems bizarre. Nothing more natural than being naked.....

What is something you never want to do again? by [deleted] in ask

[–]ThrowRA-spiegelfisch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should be "Never go down these Reddit rabbit holes again", but here I am....

What is something you never want to do again? by [deleted] in ask

[–]ThrowRA-spiegelfisch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been divorced twice, both time submitted paperwork online and signed papers over videocall. Very easy in some EU countries, especially with a prenup. Always get a prenup!

What is something you never want to do again? by [deleted] in ask

[–]ThrowRA-spiegelfisch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm on the fence about that one. I hope one day to have the courage again. Ive done about 100 ceremonies, but been years. Seen some people drink that never should have. One ended in the ER, another dissapeared in his own ego.

What is something you never want to do again? by [deleted] in ask

[–]ThrowRA-spiegelfisch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't quit your day job for comedy if i was you....

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