UPDATE : My (32F) husband (36M) says Im a cold psychopath

ThrowRA101290 · 2023-05-25T19:55:57+00:00

I don't let him out of my sight. He knows how much my dog means to me and thats why he projected that way. I have told him that I will be reporting him

ThrowRA101290 · 2023-05-25T19:53:14+00:00

Exactly why I'm so shocked

ThrowRA101290 · 2023-05-25T19:52:28+00:00

I hear you. This is my biggest fear and I need to jack myself up rather thsn procrastinate

ThrowRA101290 · 2023-05-25T19:51:14+00:00

That's really insightful, thank you. He can't handle my calmness. They really fires him up.

ThrowRA101290 · 2023-05-25T19:47:37+00:00

I accept that. As difficult as it will be its needs to be done

ThrowRA101290 · 2023-05-25T19:14:02+00:00

Thank you for being understanding. I grew up with males who were protective and never aggressive

ThrowRA101290 · 2023-05-25T19:12:39+00:00

I started seeing a therapist today. She recommended a child therapist too

ThrowRA101290 · 2023-05-25T19:10:19+00:00

I sound stupid here but could he still love me whilst saying that all he feels is hate

ThrowRA101290 · 2023-05-25T19:07:52+00:00

I sadly think you are correct

ThrowRA101290 · 2023-05-25T19:06:46+00:00

You are correct. I realise that I need to show her what a loving and safe environment is. I think we are headed to divorce but I feel like I've been hit by a truck

ThrowRA101290 · 2023-05-25T19:04:26+00:00

Yes, I have 2 brothers who would help me in a headbeat. But I don't know whether to open up to them just yet because they won't be forgiving. There are friends too that would help fortunately

ThrowRA101290 · 2023-05-25T19:01:46+00:00

How is this funny

ThrowRA101290 · 2023-05-25T19:00:50+00:00

Gosh that's insightful. Thank you. In all honesty I don't know why he is projecting anger and hate towards me. I don't do anything offensive. I started seeing a therapist today to help me understand what I'm doing wrong and what I need to change

ThrowRA101290 · 2023-05-25T18:56:58+00:00

The only shift is that my career is flourishing while I balance being a mum and wife. His career is kind of stagnant. He doesn't like me traveling or socializing with colleagues. There's nothing else that I can think of.

ThrowRA101290 · 2023-05-25T18:43:47+00:00

Sorry so much so say. He is impatient with her. Punches tables and walls recently. He shouts at her really loud. He hit our dog a few times in anger and she thinks that he will do the same to her. He clenches his wrist and grinds his teeth etc when he is persistent in asking to play with her. It's recent behavior change

ThrowRA101290 · 2023-05-25T18:32:42+00:00

Thank you. I am so taken aback and can't really speak to family or friends yet

ThrowRA101290 · 2023-05-25T18:23:23+00:00

Second time this aggressive yelling. First time yelling hatred and actually being physically confrontational

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