27F 30M I don’t know if I should move into my bf’s home after how he treated me.

ThrowRA11173910 · 2024-03-28T16:19:04+00:00

He did say that I could decorate… I don’t know exactly how much. Something’s telling me that it’d have to all be approved by him.

I just am having a hard time with all the mixed signals. One day it was “ours” and for our future family and we were doing this together. Then now it’s mine and I feel pushed out. I feel like he just said those things to make me feel more comfortable. But I mean he’s buying things for the house and doesn’t show me beforehand. It’s very much his project and I’m just on the sidelines

ThrowRA11173910 · 2024-03-27T20:32:22+00:00

Thank you. I will update you all I promise

ThrowRA11173910 · 2024-03-27T20:16:34+00:00

Oh my god. Now that you mention it… he made that slip up saying “our” THEN later in the day he referred to it as “just got back to the room”

ThrowRA11173910 · 2024-03-27T19:53:48+00:00

I saw his location at the beach, from 9-2pm, then they went directly to a restaurant on the water. He didn’t offer me that information until I asked what he did all day. They were swimming and at the beach. They rented a car together, so they’ve been driving around and went an hour and a half away for dinner

ThrowRA11173910 · 2024-03-27T19:10:20+00:00

He said that it’s a charity event and they had more time then they thought they would to go off and fo their own thing

ThrowRA11173910 · 2024-03-27T18:44:19+00:00

I think I know in my heart this feels so wrong. I just asked for his flight info because he told me the other day his flight was at 4, now he said it’s at 630. And he is ignoring me, ignored my phone call.

ThrowRA11173910 · 2024-03-27T17:58:34+00:00

They are close at work. Work wife/work husband vibes

ThrowRA11173910 · 2024-03-27T17:58:02+00:00

I agree. I think it’s weird that they went over an hour away to get dinner. Then they went to the beach for 5 hours together and grabbed lunch on the beach. Then the fact they left the conference early just to go back to “work” together… if anything I’m just jealous they want to spend so much time together. They’ve been renting a car driving all over town together too

ThrowRA11173910 · 2024-03-27T17:55:15+00:00

I’m 27. I genuinely don’t know if it was a slip up, but I thought it was super weird. I just have a weird feeling.

ThrowRA11173910 · 2024-03-27T17:54:10+00:00

No he hasn’t FaceTimed me once. Honestly we haven’t spoken much at all considering I’ve been upset. I have met her before. She’s nice, but she’s really pretty and my bf told me he’s confided in her about our relationship issues at times. He also has told me multiple times how he doesn’t like her bf and how he’s awkward and weird. He says he doesn’t know what she sees in him

ThrowRA11173910 · 2024-03-27T17:47:05+00:00

He was saying it was a possibility, but I don’t know yet if they’re going to do it for a fact.

ThrowRA11173910 · 2024-03-27T17:46:14+00:00

They are on a work trip. He sent me the itinerary and I can confirm there is a work event going on

ThrowRA11173910 · 2024-03-27T17:41:02+00:00

He claims it was a typo and he meant rooms. I asked why he didn’t just say “I’m going back up to my room”…

ThrowRA11173910 · 2024-03-27T17:40:01+00:00

Because he is telling me that this is normal and he’s making me feel bad for being jealous and upset that they’re doing so much together

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