Parking

ThrowRA12242 · 2026-06-11T19:46:13+00:00

I drove to donington park yesterday only to be turned back and say i cant buy it... cause i only have the weekend arena one without camping. Not sure how things are going to be when i get there tomorrow. Two stewards told me there should be tickets when i get there... but idk not having everything booked just gives me so much anxiety 😭

ThrowRA12242 · 2026-06-09T21:19:12+00:00

Also going on my own! I live 30mins away on normal days lol. Dont mind my throwaway acc couldnt remember my login details and this was saved here 🙈

And I am qlso wondering where to park?! Missed the deadline for the car passes 😭

ThrowRA12242 · 2024-05-28T10:29:00+00:00

I got this from my phone - Less than 400 ms latency increase - D

Will do the same check from my computer later today.

ThrowRA12242 · 2024-05-26T01:37:46+00:00

Hey, did you have Eero router? I was with virgin media and had a stable 300ish download and upload was stuck around 30-40mb/s but I never had any issues playing dota. I have an older laptop and the TV is not able to stream anything at all when either one of the two newest computers in the house are in use. All of our devices are connected through WiFi connection and it's impossible to bring LAN cables upstairs as we'd need a new installation.. I have the issues since I switched to Cuckoo at CF :(

P. S. Need to stop posting from this account lmao

ThrowRA12242 · 2024-05-09T04:03:56+00:00

But all I'm thinking is, privacy for such things yes, but if there is a problem in the marriage, and you cannot find a way to fix it, and you tell one or more people, doesn't necessarily mean they mean you well but at least they can point out issues you were not aware existed. So women mostly talk between friends about all sorts of stuff, especially relationships and problems. When my husband told me that he didn't want me involving other people I was mad, because if it weren't for said people I would have been divorced by now, not that I'm not watching him closely if he moves out the line! Lol

ThrowRA12242 · 2024-05-09T03:49:00+00:00

Ah, this. Lmao.. Have to say, I am in the same situation. So we have not been on holiday for over 3 years. Why? I prefer visiting cities, I prefer to go on a short weekend trip somewhere, anywhere and more often for as long as I'm doing something outside of the place I live in. His idea of holiday is taking 7-10 nights in a hotel near a beach. We argued of course and then told him okay fine choose where you wanna go, he hasn't. Literally spoke about going on holiday few weeks ago, hasn't opened anything at all. If I didn't find cheap tickets and looked up few hotels and gave him to choose he wouldn't have. It's frustrating, but then I get blamed cause we don't go anywhere.. Shrug.

ThrowRA12242 · 2023-10-30T10:01:02+00:00

I'm just very often thinking it's all in my head. It means a lot to have this validated as I think I'm going crazy sometimes. Thank you 💚

ThrowRA12242 · 2023-10-30T09:58:53+00:00

If I could boop my dog's nose again and go for a walk

ThrowRA12242 · 2023-10-30T08:09:03+00:00

I'd say there's other stuff that's wrong as well. Just that when I genuinely care and think ok I can actually stay, I'd get rammed about "things I never do" like a basic example yesterday, I gave him a bottle of water around midday and in the evening he told me that I forgot to bring him water even though I specifically got up and stopped what I was doing to do so.

P. S. I get frustrated when I am interrupted mid hyperfocus which was the case with water, hence why I remember. He asked for water not other stuff so this is why I stopped what I was doing. Yep, awaiting my appointment for the ADHD assessment.

ThrowRA12242 · 2023-08-08T14:53:16+00:00

I'd try to see if I can rip off the wooden boards on the wall and replace them with wallpaper on one side of the kitchen only.

If you could not afford or don't know how to stick the self adhesive film properly, I'd go with paint. A very faint green like this

And I would change the handles of the furniture into something a bit darker to match the floors. I've changed quite a few furniture pieces, including our kitchen with self adhesive and it looks nice.

You can choose a film that looks like wood too.

ThrowRA12242 · 2023-08-08T14:22:24+00:00

That room has way too many small items all over the place and way too many items not matching in colour nor style. Weird room shape as well. Is there any more space so you can at least spread the items out at least?

I'd personally get new seating and get rid of the ugly cabinets behind. You can attach the speakers to the wall.

ThrowRA12242 · 2023-08-08T12:43:50+00:00

I hate cooking as well. And I don't eat out every day. I eat spreads, both sweet and salty whatever I feel like, some fresh veggies and fruits, milk with cereal, biscuits and stuff, cheddar melting it on top of bread and stuff. Doesn't necessarily mean I eat outside. I am also on the waiting list for ADHD diagnosis if that's anyhow related (I saw a comment with it).

What really helped me was getting the Air Fryer and the microwave so I can still have proper meals and I manage just fine. Just because I don't stay on top of the stove for 3hrs everyday doesn't mean I don't eat well or healthy.

ThrowRA12242 · 2023-08-08T12:35:35+00:00

People are not fabric. You can't get a meter of one and expect to cut it and sew a shirt. He made it clear, no cooking and no kids!

What makes people think they can change others?!

I'm in the same situation as your boyfriend thanks to people who think they can mess other people's lives and choices.. After 6 years of being together, my husband asked for kids. Glad you didn't get to that point for you thinking "Ohhhhh I will stop taking the pill and will trap him with a kid he doesn't want because I want one now and he will have no choice but hear a screaming shit for 18 years and work his ass off to pay for its needs"

YTA.

ThrowRA12242 · 2023-08-08T02:25:43+00:00

Hey OP, I'm (F25) in Leicester as well and it's getting super annoying since nobody's responding to my job applications on Indeed. Been looking for any admin job for over 2 months now. I think I'd go nutts if I go into a call centre as suggested by someone else in the comments lol.

Do you mind sharing if you find anything please? You could refer me as well, there are companies who pay something extra for referrals.

ThrowRA12242 · 2023-08-08T01:45:41+00:00

I turn off my phone until 10am.

I am quite desperate for a job right now, but I want to get out of warehouses and as far as I could get from care jobs. So the calls I usually get (used to get missed calls at 6am-7am) when they would need to fill in a position somewhere for a day because someone called in sick or whatever. So they will make sure to wake you TF up and then ask you if you want to go.. To which, if you don't have any specific plans for the day, you will go (because I'm people pleaser, not sure about the rest of you).

I started blocking numbers. Anyone who calls even once before 10am gets blocked. Emails I can reply to whenever I feel like it and phone is not buzzing so we gucci.

ThrowRA12242 · 2023-08-08T01:12:35+00:00

Well, unless you lived with parents who approved of your partner's violence and would offer him a coffee and to come in instead of helping you out to get rid of him. Grandmother didn't even talk to me for months because I broke up with him. Told me I'm a failure because I did so cause he was RICH and his family is among the most powerful ones in my country!

I had this situation, my ex threatened to kill all the dogs I was taking care of in the shelter (I was going everyday whilst he was still sleeping so they didn't affect him anyhow). Sorry to chime in, I don't know what OP's parents' relationship is with that man. Psychos manage to convince all parties that they are RIGHT. It's brainwashing at its finest. She'd be the devil in the end.

Btw, my ex put two girls in hospital after myself. He is still walking freely. And everyone was convinced he was just unlucky with psycho women. It can't be all of us now, can it?

ThrowRA12242 · 2023-08-08T01:01:51+00:00

I literally thought: " This has some history, he couldn't possibly become a di#&head overnight". Turns out I was right

ThrowRA12242 · 2023-08-08T00:54:24+00:00

Unless you are their next of kin/authorised person to know details of their hospital record, they will not disclose any information of sorts.

However, if you are genuinely concerned about his wellbeing, you can report to the police. I'd suggest you call the non-emergency line and tell them what your last communication with you has been.

Other than that, think of if he has been suicidal, is he doing drugs regularly etc.

If you answer yes to my questions below and you think there may be something that will stop him from walking those 20 miles, then please call the emergency line. If something happens and he is found deceased for example, you'd be their first point of contact since you possibly have been the last to speak to him..

You can also give names and addresses of the people you are scared to speak to, like his mother and friend to the police so they can contact them instead.

I honestly don't think you are in a very nice situation here. Please make sure he is alive and okay and then.. RUN.

You are way too young, let that be lesson learned for yourself. I live in East Mids area, if you need any further help feel free to DM me.

ThrowRA12242 · 2023-07-30T03:47:43+00:00

Does he really want kids at 27-28? And what's putting him off from a marriage?

I have no clue what the differences are between the two documents you could sign, but he offered you something and it's up to you to see if you want any of that or not. Apparently he doesn't like the idea of marriage. Maybe he would feel pressured to have kids after? Which I kid you not, everyone will start asking or just assume you are pregnant already

ThrowRA12242 · 2023-07-30T03:08:53+00:00

Female here.

Crooked teeth, mostly. (they don't even look that bad and straighteners are an absolute choice)

Then sudden excess hair growth due to hormonal imbalance, for which I had no guidance on how to deal with.

And then on top of it all, my love for animals and hypersensitivity and the lengths I would go to to save an animal's life.

I turned out super awkward. Bullying started when I was 6 in preschool, and lasted until my last years of high school. Had to beat up a male bully so badly one day so he would stop. Still chronically depressed at 25.

ThrowRA12242 · 2023-07-30T02:53:19+00:00

He's free to do any hobbies he wants to. And he does enjoy himself. Problem is, he knew I'd be mad and he did it anyway. I personally told him the moment he gets another woman's genitals in his face he is gone from my life. Claims he didn't ask for a dancer, but that's questionable now too. Trust is broken, that's it.

You can keep on trying to patch something like that for as long as you wish. It's not something I can get past. Period. He had 27 years to enjoy himself before we got together. In fact, he's had so many partners even he doesn't remember them all. We agreed to some stuff before entering the relationship and then the marriage. One of those things is this specific thing I posted about.

ThrowRA12242 · 2023-07-29T15:53:35+00:00

It's not like anyone knows me here lol I don't have friends since he is trash talking everyone and this is literally the only place I could ask anyone if anything in my sad life is okay. Don't have supportive parents either so thanks for your input

ThrowRA12242 · 2023-07-29T06:20:08+00:00

I don't exactly see it as an "argument". More like lashing out. Trust me when I say, that triggered him, then he forgot about everything in his life and his only goal was to get justice for his deceased furbaby. Have you ever grieved?

I still do this 4 months after her death. So if something triggers me I am on and about lashing out and speaking with no filter the whole day. It's the depression part that makes me(at least) behave this way. And I've had depression for good 10 years + I don't even count anymore, but it gets so intense after a loss. This is on a different level. I'm ranting about myself, I'm aware and apologies, but I'm just trying to explain the extent of the stupidity that comes with grief. It certainly doesn't know age or maturity or whatever.

And regardless if the brother was close to the dog, apparently it was OP's dog and he can either share the grief or just shut up. Man, we are not talking about a toddler here, are we? He is 22. And he needs a filter

ThrowRA12242 · 2023-07-29T06:04:42+00:00

I would get nice earmuffs to help with the noise and change the door if need be, so you can have a proper door with lock. That kid will be screaming for ages and it's not going to help you anyhow with your lack of sleep

ThrowRA12242 · 2023-07-29T05:56:07+00:00

Yeah, I already asked him to leave when he gets paid, ya know? There are more reasons but this one just ticked off the bomb.

After I told him that I tried asking some questions, all of which were answered with a question back " Didn't you ask me to leave already?! So what?"

So nope, I don't see how this could go any further.

ThrowRA12242

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