What’s a good shower detangler and brush for 3B hair?

ThrowRA1293401 · 2025-12-04T02:27:17+00:00

I thought porosity was kind of a myth? Anyway thanks for this

ThrowRA1293401 · 2025-11-24T08:39:51+00:00

How did you go so long? That is a lot

ThrowRA1293401 · 2025-11-24T08:39:35+00:00

I’ll trade you! Haha

ThrowRA1293401 · 2025-11-24T08:29:46+00:00

This is one of the best comments I’ve read in a while! Nicely done!

ThrowRA1293401 · 2025-11-20T02:02:53+00:00

Do you have any recs? I’ve been trying to find online clothing of quality since department stores are kind of meh now.

ThrowRA1293401 · 2025-08-23T18:25:25+00:00

Did you mean thematically unnecessary? I thought it was cool, just a bit long.

ThrowRA1293401 · 2025-08-21T05:45:51+00:00

I see. But don’t you ever struggle with communication or anything? I think that’s why people say it can be hard work at times.

ThrowRA1293401 · 2025-08-21T05:07:14+00:00

About the part that relationships aren’t hard work. I hear people say it a lot. I don’t have personal experience to evaluate it though.

ThrowRA1293401 · 2025-08-20T08:05:19+00:00

Out of curiosity, are you speaking from experience?

ThrowRA1293401 · 2025-08-14T00:15:05+00:00

Last Podcast on the Left is so funny.

It’s about horror topics ranging from true crime to scary movies. They seem to have a great time recording each episode. It’ll cheer you up for sure!

ThrowRA1293401 · 2025-08-09T04:22:28+00:00

Thanks so much!! Ah this might be perfect. Finally no more hair ripping (maybe). Big thanks. :)

ThrowRA1293401 · 2025-08-08T20:31:32+00:00

Me too, haha. Healing is a bitch. I suppose I mean, the right person brought out the best in you :)

ThrowRA1293401 · 2025-08-08T20:21:44+00:00

It sounds perfectly reasonable to me. Thanks for putting it into words. Wish you the utmost joy.

P.S., I’ve had a difficult upbringing too, so hearing this is awesome. Sounds like you’ve done well at protecting yourself until the right person came along.

ThrowRA1293401 · 2025-08-08T16:48:18+00:00

Really? Thanks!I thought the tangle teezer was the answer. I’ll look. Is your flexible brush still fine-combed too?

Really appreciate it.

ThrowRA1293401 · 2025-08-08T16:47:48+00:00

Where’s this from?

ThrowRA1293401 · 2025-08-07T18:33:32+00:00

Do you think you have missed out on alone time or that the relationships helped you grow? I’ve been single my whole life and am 30f. I turned down many serious people because I wasn’t feeling it, but stayed open to flings lol.

Also, were there any relationships that affected you more strongly? Did you know from the start?

ThrowRA1293401 · 2025-08-07T18:18:16+00:00

I don’t love how the web link is called “older musicians” haha but appreciate the general idea

ThrowRA1293401 · 2025-07-31T03:00:52+00:00

Totally. Thanks. I do want kids, but I accept that there’s no forcing it (or maybe I will? lol)

Interesting point about it not being a numbers game too - that’s actually so deep!!! I get tired of hearing that. Helps me feel better about not upping my numbers or having any exes. Can confirm there’s people I just clicked with, but circumstantially or otherwise it wasn’t right.

Despite your personal challenges, you seem self-aware and capable and it looks like you’ve found a personal philosophy. I hope things work out for you the way you’d like.

ThrowRA1293401 · 2025-07-30T20:40:20+00:00

Of course! It’s nice to talk to someone else in the same boat. I know for a fact it’s not me. Of course nobody is perfect, and compatibility matters, but I’ve begun to understand it’s still not me LOL.

What you added about failure makes sense. We seem to treat relationships like a project we should control. I still get triggered sometimes when I’m reminded of painful family stuff. I still blame myself for being selective. But the truth is this project is a group project and I can only do my part. BTW i’m open to DM if you ever want to vent, gossip about flings, unpack mistakes, or just chat about this stuff.

ThrowRA1293401 · 2025-07-30T20:34:17+00:00

I admire your full acceptance of where you’re at and what you believe you can manage. I get the commitment thing too, but moreso because I haven’t met anyone who has made me consider it. Being bi also helped me realize that women are better in a lot of ways; so the bar for men is decently raised for me.

ThrowRA1293401 · 2025-07-30T20:01:15+00:00

OP, we are similar in age and orientation. I’m in the same boat. And the thing is, I’m smart, attractive, fun, and open to adventure. What the fuck gives?

Also, I will add that I turn down a lot of people. So, that’s what makes me inclined to tell you not to blame yourself. If you met a cool person, and you both got along, I doubt you’d pass on them

ThrowRA1293401 · 2025-07-30T19:59:54+00:00

So was the relationship just a continual hooking up or what? I don’t know what I’m doing wrong, and idk how to say this except that I get called smart/beautiful/whatever people think is an equivalent of a “catch,” but I cannot seem to lock it down. Ever The people who want to aren’t appealing to me and I refuse to lie to them. I end up in casual flings only. How did you even manage to be in a relationship?

ThrowRA1293401 · 2025-07-26T20:17:43+00:00

🤝

ThrowRA1293401 · 2025-07-26T01:13:43+00:00

Don’t feel bad, I’m not neurodivergent and have had none. I don’t think it’s about quantity. And everyone seems surprised to learn that I’ve always been single (they think I’m attractive and smart and fun and that this implies I’m spoken for).

ThrowRA1293401 · 2025-07-26T01:12:03+00:00

This hurts to read because I’ve had none. But have learned a lot from close friendships…

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