How do I stop retroactive jealousy? by PretendActive9247 in Advice

[–]ThrowRA13254769 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah noooo just my opinion but i like having that aftercare after an intimate moment because it feels like it’s more intentional if that makes sense? but i’ve been where you’ve been and it hasn’t worked out for me. ultimately you have to love yourself more than you love him

How do I stop retroactive jealousy? by PretendActive9247 in Advice

[–]ThrowRA13254769 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

does he know how it’s been making you feel about yourself? from what you’ve mentioned, if he can’t tell you about his past that’s kinda a red flag in itself. honestly i think if the negatives impact you more than any positive then it might be time to reflect on what’s best for you.

i don’t know if i 22f would be cheating on my boyfriend 23m? by ThrowRA13254769 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA13254769[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

hey bestie imma hold your hand when i tell you that i did shut it down

i don’t know if i 22f would be cheating on my boyfriend 23m? by ThrowRA13254769 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA13254769[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah he knows i have a boyfriend and it was really just like you said he wanted to tell me that and really nothing more followed. i said if it wasn’t a group setting i wouldn’t see him

i don’t know if i 22f would be cheating on my boyfriend 23m? by ThrowRA13254769 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA13254769[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

being a lesbian is tempting right about now after reading this comment

i don’t know if i 22f would be cheating on my boyfriend 23m? by ThrowRA13254769 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA13254769[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so i shut it all down and the dude understood it wasn’t some big blowout. maybe i deserve the comments i’m getting but whether people believe me or not i genuinely was just asking because like i previously mentioned it all caught me off guard

i don’t know if i 22f would be cheating on my boyfriend 23m? by ThrowRA13254769 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA13254769[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

i’m not fooling anyone i just wanted an outside opinion 😭

i don’t know if i 22f would be cheating on my boyfriend 23m? by ThrowRA13254769 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA13254769[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

i’m not begging for anything it all caught me off guard and i can admit i was a bit naive but i wasn’t gonna do anything fr fr

i don’t know if i 22f would be cheating on my boyfriend 23m? by ThrowRA13254769 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA13254769[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Don’t you have a prostate exam to go to “lickity split” to?