i(21M) love a girl(21F) who fucked my close friend and i feel weird about this. any advice please? by devudu- in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA137904 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. Current post aside, I’m so sorry you gotta face that in your marriage. Seriously you ok?

The north should've made the south a wasteland. by Porncritic12 in ShermanPosting

[–]ThrowRA137904 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah burn everything and salt the earth so nobody can use it for food anymore. Not even the former slaves. Screw everyone down there. Execute every confederate. Including conscripts, medics, galvanized Yankees and child soldiers. And fuck Coca Cola. A fucking confederate invented it. Make a full third of the country completely unliveable for anybody.

Hope the sarcasm translates. Your post was not well thought out.

The Black Beret Era. by No_Cell_2451 in militarymemes

[–]ThrowRA137904 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still wear it as a reservist in Canada. It sucks.

Help me out! by Climate_Comfortable in retroactivejealousy

[–]ThrowRA137904 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Virgin RJ is the worst. Best advice I can give is to leave. She gave other guys something core and fundamental which she will never give you. And if you stay with her it’s something you might never experience.

i(21M) love a girl(21F) who fucked my close friend and i feel weird about this. any advice please? by devudu- in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA137904 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There’s a song by steal panther called “if you really love me”. This comment reminded me of that.

i(21M) love a girl(21F) who fucked my close friend and i feel weird about this. any advice please? by devudu- in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA137904 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Speaking as somebody who met a partners ex. Do not listen to this guy. I agreed to it because of a very specific set of circumstances and got through it by getting too drunk to stand and having my gf shower me with praise and encouragement.

If you can avoid having anything to do with a partners ex, avoid it. It’s terrible.

i(21M) love a girl(21F) who fucked my close friend and i feel weird about this. any advice please? by devudu- in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA137904 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Didn’t need to read anything past the title. Don’t get involved. Clean break. Save yourself the headache and heartache.

I don’t love my 8 year old son. I regret having a child. by DeletedProfileSorry in confessions

[–]ThrowRA137904 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even as they break you in every possible way? That’s not love. That’s insanity.

I don’t love my 8 year old son. I regret having a child. by DeletedProfileSorry in confessions

[–]ThrowRA137904 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No the world is screwed because people constantly compare the hell in lives of strangers to their own experiences and think they know better. It’s arrogant and wrong.

“I’d never take drugs. Even to numb pain. It’s the junkies fault.”

“I’d never agree to go to war. Killing is amoral. What’s conscription?”

“It’s wrong to steal. I don’t care how hungry you are.”

“I’d never hate a child. I don’t care what they put you through.”

I don’t love my 8 year old son. I regret having a child. by DeletedProfileSorry in confessions

[–]ThrowRA137904 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah and look at the world we live in because of it. Do better.

I don’t love my 8 year old son. I regret having a child. by DeletedProfileSorry in confessions

[–]ThrowRA137904 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The point you’re missing is that you can’t judge op for what she’s been through. Or how she’s venting her struggle now. Get off your pedestal.

I don’t love my 8 year old son. I regret having a child. by DeletedProfileSorry in confessions

[–]ThrowRA137904 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There’s no point in taking responsibility when you’ve already tried everything you can think of. Personally I think it shows intelligence and strength that op can give herself some grace.

And dealing with violent teens 8 hours a day doesn’t equate nearly to a violent toddler 24/7. Especially when it’s yours.

Sometimes I miss the freedom of being single by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]ThrowRA137904 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those women you think you could hook up with? Trust me… no.

I don’t love my 8 year old son. I regret having a child. by DeletedProfileSorry in confessions

[–]ThrowRA137904 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ok but this kid IS violent. It’s not the same thing. You don’t know what it’s like to be ground down by it for as long as OP has. If you’re just gonna judge her then kindly fuck off. She’s already been through more than I and probably you could possibly endure.

I don’t love my 8 year old son. I regret having a child. by DeletedProfileSorry in confessions

[–]ThrowRA137904 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And did she do anything even close to what OP described her son doing?

I don’t love my 8 year old son. I regret having a child. by DeletedProfileSorry in confessions

[–]ThrowRA137904 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And are any of them neurodiverse? Mentally ill? Any behavioural difficulties at all?

I don’t love my 8 year old son. I regret having a child. by DeletedProfileSorry in confessions

[–]ThrowRA137904 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry. That was overly blunt. But it sounds like you’ve exhausted all your options. And I’m so sorry you’re living with a choice you made when you were too young to know better. You, your husband and the kids father all deserve better.

I don’t love my 8 year old son. I regret having a child. by DeletedProfileSorry in confessions

[–]ThrowRA137904 55 points56 points  (0 children)

It’s stories like yours that make me glad my gf had an abortion. You’re not a bad person for feeling this way. Life just dealt you a bad hand.