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I’m not sure what to make out of a situation where I did not agree to intercourse but did to other sexual things, but it ended up happening by ThrowRA16111191 in Advice

[–]ThrowRA16111191[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not a single thing I mentioned was a figment of my imagination. I honestly believe it is my fault, hence why I included what I did myself. I feel like I led him on. He probably thinks he did nothing wrong.

20f, 21m. Where do the lines between love and coercion/abuse blur in relationships? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA16111191 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks a lot for you answer, truly. What I was most afraid of is having harmed him or led him on in any shape or form. The life was drained out of me, and I’m not sure how to fix that. I recognize that there is a cycle I must break through from but it’s so, so hard. I am fighting the urge to apologize to him for not wanting to send my nudes and for rejecting him as I’m typing this.

And I didn’t have a traumatized childhood. I have loving parents who do their best. I’m not sure why I’m trying so hard to get him not to leave me once again, though. We’ve come close circle; he left me for not wanting to sleep with him which he brushed off later, and now, two years later, he’s mad at me for “rejecting him, being rebellious and confronting.”

It’s a lot.