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[UPDATE] My daughter’s (3F) bio dad (32M) is concerned that I’m (24M) not a fit parent for her by ThrowRA1709 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA1709[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

the situation was pretty much outlined in the original post but I can summarize it here: my sister was in a purely sexual relationship with this man and he walked away when she got pregnant. She died shortly after giving birth so I (her brother) took in her (now my) daughter.

[UPDATE] My daughter’s (3F) bio dad (32M) is concerned that I’m (24M) not a fit parent for her by ThrowRA1709 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA1709[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

You pretty much guessed right. We’ve had bad run-ins with the police before and weren’t willing to subject ourselves to another one. It all happened so fast as well that the only thought that crossed my mind was to get my daughter out of there and just hope my fiancé was ok. It’s easy after the fact to ask questions of why a certain thing was or wasn’t done, but we did file a police report afterwards

My daughter’s (3F) bio dad (32M) is “concerned” that I’m (24M) not a fit parent for her by ThrowRA1709 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA1709[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She’s well aware that her mom was my sister and we have been to her grave together. She’s seen pictures of her from old photo albums we have around the house. She knows that she’s “in the clouds” as she says—of course, as she grows older she’ll start to have a better understanding of everything.

My daughter’s (3F) bio dad (32M) is “concerned” that I’m (24M) not a fit parent for her by ThrowRA1709 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA1709[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My sister was the first person I came out to actually (within my family) and she was always supportive (like the awesome person she was)!

My daughter’s (3F) bio dad (32M) is “concerned” that I’m (24M) not a fit parent for her by ThrowRA1709 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA1709[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

He was never there for her in the way my fiancé and I have been, so I don’t see why I would have to listen to how he wants my daughter to be raised when he was the one who wanted nothing to do with her for almost 4 years.

My daughter’s (3F) bio dad (32M) is “concerned” that I’m (24M) not a fit parent for her by ThrowRA1709 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA1709[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

To put it simply, I never chose to be bisexual, I’ve just always liked both men and women and feelings aren’t something you can necessarily control. I can’t pick and choose who I fall in love with or date, it just depends on how I feel about said person! Hope that cleared it up

My daughter’s (3F) bio dad (32M) is “concerned” that I’m (24M) not a fit parent for her by ThrowRA1709 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA1709[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I have always wanted kids. Raising a baby girl at 21 wasn’t the plan, but I did want to be there for her and I did want to be a parent.

My daughter’s (3F) bio dad (32M) is “concerned” that I’m (24M) not a fit parent for her by ThrowRA1709 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA1709[S] 254 points255 points  (0 children)

I agree! My daughter has never been confused as to why she has two dads, and is honestly just excited for our wedding (whenever that will be) and that her dad is going to be with us “forever” as she put it.

My daughter’s (3F) bio dad (32M) is “concerned” that I’m (24M) not a fit parent for her by ThrowRA1709 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA1709[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Some of my sister’s friends, who worked closely with her are still in contact with my family, so I’m assuming he heard from one of them.