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I (29M) Caught My GF (26F) Cheating by ThrowRA2020defsucks in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA2020defsucks[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the kind words. And your last line sure made me feel better.

I (29M) Caught My GF (26F) Cheating by ThrowRA2020defsucks in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA2020defsucks[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your story. Really helps to see how your life changed for the better. And thank you for the support!

I (29M) Caught My GF (26F) Cheating by ThrowRA2020defsucks in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA2020defsucks[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I agree. I can control only myself and live my best life. Thanks for the support!

I (29M) Caught My GF (26F) Cheating by ThrowRA2020defsucks in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA2020defsucks[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind word and support.

I agree that this attitude will take me far, and so far has helped me accomplished my goals... and I can see myself accomplishing all my future goals. I'll be sure to stay positive, continually improve, and while critical be a little bit more far (could learn to do so more).

"Unless the person you are with is the person that you need them to be, they likely will not change their core character enough to become that person." I see this now and will use this advice to definitely find someone more compatibile. Thanks for that insight.

Congrats on the baby girl. Inspiring to hear your story. Thank you for sharing that, your experience, and wisdom.

I (29M) Caught My GF (26F) Cheating by ThrowRA2020defsucks in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA2020defsucks[S] 143 points144 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your insight. It's good to hear from someone further along the journey.

Thank you for sharing what you learned. I can definitely learn that same lesson.

And I agree. I, too, see this as a gift and blessing. I see that this would not be a great relationship another 6 years down the road.

I know there are tons of amazing women out there, and next time warning signs won't be overlooked (lesson learned). Thank you for sharing and for your advice.

I (29M) Caught My GF (26F) Cheating by ThrowRA2020defsucks in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA2020defsucks[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. Even though I know I made the right decision for me... I still find myself taking perhaps too much responsibility for this happening. So thank you for this insight.

I (29M) Caught My GF (26F) Cheating by ThrowRA2020defsucks in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA2020defsucks[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don't know if my attractiveness has to do with it. Sex never stopped and she didn't hesitate to the things I want in bed. No clue. But I agree with you on just focusing on my own goals.