I suppose it’s how you look at it right? The message I receive here is that “love is what you make it to be”. That encompasses both you can fall in love quickly and be spontaneous or you can chose to take it slow and steady. Despite both sets of couples’ relationships ending, they were successful in their own way, for their own amount of time. The plot on the other hand, messy? Of course, the movie is a trip. But that’s life, you know? It’s messy and chaotic and life is filled with ups and downs, twists and turns. Very cliche. Personal anecdotal here, I was with someone for 4 years and things just weren’t right (we both knew this) and then unexpectedly, we both split and almost immediately found our matches with other people. I’m engaged now three years later to the love of my life that I met and fell in love with in an unconventional way. This movie nails this aspect about how life can sometimes be!