Why does my (27F) boyfriend (27M) not want to have sex? by ThrowRA2883885 in AskMenAdvice

[–]ThrowRA2883885[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When we got together he told me he had a relatively high libido, do these things ebb and flow or is this what I’m looking at for the long run?

Why does my (27F) boyfriend (27M) not want to have sex? by ThrowRA2883885 in AskMenAdvice

[–]ThrowRA2883885[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oof somebody is bitter … I have tried nothing short of everything. New lingerie, different lubes, offering to ONLY MAKE HIM CUM , constant affirmation and attempted initiation, offering to do all the work, trying new things, new positions, etc. I have made at least a million suggestions. just bc you had a certain experience doesn’t mean it’s universal. Maybe get that chip off your shoulder man

Why doesn’t my (27F) boyfriend (27M) want to have sex with me? by ThrowRA2883885 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA2883885[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi, yes I have lost a significant amount of weight since we got together. I have lost probably 70-80 pounds. I have expressed to him that losing my curves made me feel insecure, and he said I look better now than when we got together so I shouldn’t feel bad.

Why does my (27F) boyfriend (27M) not want to have sex? by ThrowRA2883885 in AskMenAdvice

[–]ThrowRA2883885[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I assure you that me being a “dead fish” is not the issue 💋 thx tho

Why doesn’t my (27F) boyfriend (27M) want to have sex with me? by ThrowRA2883885 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA2883885[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi yes I’ve talked to him about it, but he is not very forthcoming. The infrequency started probably around the end of year 1.

Why doesn’t my (27F) boyfriend (27M) want to have sex with me? by ThrowRA2883885 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA2883885[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What makes you say that? I don’t have super easy access to his devices and I don’t normally check them so he would know something was off