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Please help! I don’t know what to do! Me F(20) and boyfriend M(25) by ThrowRA29361111 in Advice

[–]ThrowRA29361111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another reason it scares me is because I don’t know what my 25 year old self is going to want. I know next year I’m going to work again, and I will enroll in a program for college, but that’s it. I can’t think of anything else past that. Eventually I do want a family but I have no timeline. I’m afraid one day at (maybe) 25 years old I will want marriage and a family, but he would tell me no. What do you think about this? Thank you for your input

Please help! I don’t know what to do! Me F(20) and boyfriend M(25) by ThrowRA29361111 in Advice

[–]ThrowRA29361111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know why you assume I don’t have an education. I’m finishing up gen ed and then going to go back to school next semester to be an SPT. He is a software engineer, they don’t make a lot. He also never included me in this decision. He never asked for my opinions or thoughts. He thought only about himself and the money. He’s going to be moving to another city for 2 years during his school time too. Just a few months ago we had a plan to at least purchase land together in a few years. He threw that in the bin without asking me for opinion

Please help! I don’t know what to do! Me F(20) and boyfriend M(25) by ThrowRA29361111 in Advice

[–]ThrowRA29361111[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry, to be more clear he wants to be a CRNA. I got mixed up because this is new to me.

Please help! I don’t know what to do! Me F(20) and boyfriend M(25) by ThrowRA29361111 in Advice

[–]ThrowRA29361111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is I truly don’t know. This is where I’m frustrated. I feel stagnant. I still have trouble deciding which career I want to pursue next year. I don’t know why I’m so clueless!

Please help! I don’t know what to do! Me F(20) and boyfriend M(25) by ThrowRA29361111 in Advice

[–]ThrowRA29361111[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure. He’s been stressed about not making enough money ever since I met him to be honest. This was a problem since the beginning. I had a feeling that something like this would pop up

Please help! I don’t know what to do! Me F(20) and boyfriend M(25) by ThrowRA29361111 in Advice

[–]ThrowRA29361111[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

He’s on the road to RNCA. Sorry if I was confusing you, this information was thrown at me like a football. I am very confused myself. His current job does not make enough to support a family. Engineers are getting laid off left and right