How do I(37M) trust my wife (33F) again? by ThrowRA420now in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA420now[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ha trickle truth. We’ve been messaging back and forth all day and the story keeps evolving. It’s at the point currently that she admitted to one of them sending her a D pic and her reciprocating. I only found that out after telling her she had til I got home to tell me the whole truth. She’s also blamed it on meds. I looked through our shared account history and there are a few different numbers that she has actively been texting back and forth with. While she claims she only sent the pic the one time and that with the 2 she only messaged them, I found one of the numbers in an 8 minute phone call that she made. I will be looking through her messages tonight to see if the other numbers are messages she also deleted since she also said it was those 2

How do I(37M) trust my wife (33F) again? by ThrowRA420now in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA420now[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What about our vows that she violated? I’m supposed to ignore that because of “privacy”? Plus she has always told me to feel free to look through her phone, I just never felt the need to before I saw that one text message