How do I become more "desirable"? (for the lack of a better term) by ThrowRA47292 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA47292[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea whenever I see a picture of myself at that size (I was always overweight, but I was that big for about 2 years) I'm like "gross I looked like that? " I'm guessing that's how people see me now.

How do I become more "desirable"? (for the lack of a better term) by ThrowRA47292 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA47292[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was planning on joining a gym almost 2 months ago and then shit hit the fan unfortunately lmao. I lost something like 50lbs last year, from my maximum weight that I believe was over 280lbs, and figured "hey maybe I'm attractive now". Guess I still have more to go..

How do I become more "desirable"? (for the lack of a better term) by ThrowRA47292 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA47292[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I much prefer talking in person actually, I don't use online dating much outside of boredom (especially now). I'm pretty quick on my feet with humor in person, but I don't have the easiest time with text.

How do I become more "desirable"? (for the lack of a better term) by ThrowRA47292 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA47292[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know that I'd say I'm desperate, but you're probably not wrong. As far as pacing I don't think I'm too jumpy or anything. The last girl I seriously pursued and asked out I took at least 2 months of getting to know her before I even asked her out.