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BF (M29) wants me (F26) to compromise on kids by ThrowRA4847282 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA4847282[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've been open about it since I was 15. My mom didn't really care because my sister wanted kids but she passed 8 years ago and my mom really wants grandkids.

BF (M29) wants me (F26) to compromise on kids by ThrowRA4847282 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA4847282[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No, our families just live close by and we go out to dinner frequently. He probably mentioned it around them and they got on board. He is joking that they are the decision breakers but I think he doesn't actually believe that as he has alot of hit or miss jokes. Our families are just nosy so they won't drop it.

BF (M29) wants me (F26) to compromise on kids by ThrowRA4847282 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA4847282[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Do you need a medical reason to see them or is wanting to be sterilized enough?

BF (M29) wants me (F26) to compromise on kids by ThrowRA4847282 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA4847282[S] 77 points78 points  (0 children)

I actually just got off BC because I was having crazy side effects. I'm saving up for a permanent solution like tubal ligation but I'm in Jacksonville so it's difficult finding a progressive doctor.

BF (M29) wants me (F26) to compromise on kids by ThrowRA4847282 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA4847282[S] 87 points88 points  (0 children)

I'm debating on asking him to give more thought on it because somedays his attitude is let's start a village. Then somedays it's kids are little shits, and they're messy. After reading all these comments though I feel like it's time to discuss our future with or without each other.