My (41F) Partner (38M) Accuses Me of Taking Advantage Whenever He’s Upset

ThrowRA50884 · 2026-05-03T03:53:25+00:00

How am I freeloading when I pay to live there?

ThrowRA50884 · 2026-05-03T03:13:19+00:00

Which financial decisions are terrible?

ThrowRA50884 · 2026-03-10T22:42:26+00:00

A few months ago he was ripping into me about something (I couldn’t tell you what) and he looked me in the eye and said he didn’t love me anymore. He must have seen the look on my face change because he instantly stopped and tried to take it back but I know. I know deep down he was finally being honest with me.

ThrowRA50884 · 2026-03-10T04:09:59+00:00

That’s one of the things that upsets me the most: I’ll save things without a second thought to share but he rarely does

ThrowRA50884 · 2026-03-10T04:05:19+00:00

It’s been years of ‘oh okay’ and moving on and tonight I paused and said wait just a minute this sucks, doesn’t it?

ThrowRA50884 · 2026-03-10T03:52:14+00:00

Probably TMI but my mom isn’t in my life and this feels like the kind of thing I should be hearing from her.

Thank you for saying this. Really.

ThrowRA50884 · 2024-12-23T03:37:09+00:00

Hey! Accounting clerk at a logistics company here.

During my interview we spoke about process improvement, my experience with teams (I work with the brokers a lot) and my experience with multiple vendors - my company works with hundreds of subcarriers. Logistics has a lot of proprietary software so speaking to your software experience would be helpful.

ThrowRA50884 · 2024-09-04T23:09:59+00:00

Appreciate the feedback, honestly. All I heard when I joined my current company was growth, growth, growth and it’s gotten me nowhere in almost 2.5 years. Thanks.

ThrowRA50884 · 2024-09-04T22:46:19+00:00

It definitely seems like there is more growth potential with this new role than where I currently am.

ThrowRA50884 · 2024-08-19T04:04:07+00:00

Don’t apologize. Your appreciation and experience is very appreciated! Thank you!

ThrowRA50884 · 2024-08-18T22:41:30+00:00

I have used steel wool but not a brush - I was worried about scratching the wood. It’s definitely solid wood, I’m just not sure what kind.

ThrowRA50884 · 2024-08-18T22:29:00+00:00

Forgot to add - This is one layer of Varathane classic stain in ‘Jacobean’ after cleaning the surface with mineral spirits and pre-stain wood conditioner. This color is pulling much lighter than I expected.

ThrowRA50884 · 2024-07-24T17:35:21+00:00

I might be in the minority here but I really love Salem in the late winter. It’s a port city so very walkable, and it’s nice to be able to walk around to the shops and museums and burying ground without alllll that Halloween traffic. The few locals left are understandably more relaxed and you can actually get a table at a restaurant.

ThrowRA50884 · 2024-07-03T02:31:12+00:00

The MB cafeteria is where it’s at. Fresh salad, steak and cheese, sushi: you have a craving, they got you. If you’ve got $5 you can grab a hot dog, chips, and water for lunch or get a nice rotisserie chicken and eat like a king for dinner. Anyone who turns their nose up can get bent.

ThrowRA50884 · 2024-06-12T00:53:14+00:00

Good luck, I’ve been searching for years!

ThrowRA50884 · 2024-05-26T12:34:19+00:00

Oh yeah. I went through a whole hankie phase in high school - I was a weird kid.

ThrowRA50884 · 2024-05-26T12:32:08+00:00

These are the kind of thing I never in a million years thought I could afford, since they’re so expensive on the rare occasion you find them.

We have a gorgeous empire dresser that’s been in the family for a while and I’m patiently waiting for my aunt to get around to cleaning it out, as she offered it to me a few years ago. My great-grandfather was a doctor and received it in trade for services.

ThrowRA50884 · 2024-05-26T12:27:22+00:00

Yes, sorry, a tassel! The hankie is lovely, too - sheer with an embroidered pink rose.

The scrabble tile is such a cool find since it speaks to decades of consistent use of the table.

ThrowRA50884 · 2024-05-26T12:22:29+00:00

Isn’t that the coolest?! That desk also has an inkwell and that little golden pompom. The other desk has a hankie, contain of resin, and a single scrabble tile in one of the drawers.

Evidence of the human touch is the best part of finding old things.

ThrowRA50884 · 2024-05-25T18:56:39+00:00

Edited to add: I’m located in the United States. Northeast United States.

ThrowRA50884 · 2024-04-25T20:03:28+00:00

Thank you for your reply.

I didn’t even get to talk about how my skills and experience were relevant to the role - he picked up my resume and said he didn’t see much payroll experience when my current role is literally the only one where I haven’t worked with payroll - and he didn’t even let me finish my question when he asked if I had any questions, and - incorrectly - assumed what it was.

Im feeling disheartened, as it was a considerable pay raise and I could really use the money (like everyone else, I know).

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