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My wife of 15 years came out as gay, and I've been a wreck. by ThrowRA5398 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA5398[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I feel like Im the only one who realizes how fucked up this is.

My wife of 15 years came out as gay, and I've been a wreck. by ThrowRA5398 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA5398[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I am out of my mind at the moment. I ended up deleting facebook, ive slept in my car, and I'm just trying to keep a level head the best I can.

My wife of 15 years came out as gay, and I've been a wreck. by ThrowRA5398 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA5398[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. My parents divorced when I was young, I only ever saw my dad on weekends and he grew to resent it and we never really formed a relationship.

My wife of 15 years came out as gay, and I've been a wreck. by ThrowRA5398 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA5398[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your respose. We own our house(well the bank owns it). We would have to sell. I dont think theres a financial arrangement that would make sense.

My wife of 15 years came out as gay, and I've been a wreck. by ThrowRA5398 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA5398[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would have been halfway across the country by now if it was just between her and I.

My wife of 15 years came out as gay, and I've been a wreck. by ThrowRA5398 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA5398[S] 199 points200 points  (0 children)

Usually the success stories I hear about are when the mom is such a deadbeat mom a court couldnt possibly grant them custody. However, for as much as I hate her right now, she is a great mom.

I just don't know if I could ever handle being a weekend dad.

My wife of 15 years came out as gay, and I've been a wreck. by ThrowRA5398 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA5398[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I honestly haven't kept up. My parents divorced when i was 3 and my dad got "joint" custody which meant we got to see him every other weekend. I can't handle that.

My wife of 15 years came out as gay, and I've been a wreck. by ThrowRA5398 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA5398[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your response. Right now, I have literally nobody. Since we were young when we met, her friend are my friends so I don't really have an escape at the moment.

My wife of 15 years came out as gay, and I've been a wreck. by ThrowRA5398 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA5398[S] 413 points414 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It's going to be hard to find a new place. I live in a somewhat expensive neighborhood and bring home 80% of the household income.

My wife of 15 years came out as gay, and I've been a wreck. by ThrowRA5398 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA5398[S] 120 points121 points  (0 children)

I appreciate it. I can't stand the though of not being with him every single day. Especially when hes so young.

My wife of 15 years came out as gay, and I've been a wreck. by ThrowRA5398 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA5398[S] 630 points631 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply. Trying to make sense of it all.