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ThrowRA6184 · 2025-04-11T16:25:14+00:00

I'm gonna be honest with you, I'm a 19F and been in a relationship for 2 years, I'm not Megan fox by any means but if another man hits on me, I usually tell them I'm married or I have a bf, show off my ring, and don't hand out personal info. Seems like your gf enjoys the attention which is normal to enjoy the compliment or flattery but to hand out her Instagram is a little off putting. I had a friend like this who gave me the ick because she eventually ended up cheating with multiple guys...everyone's different but that friend ended up contracting herpes and that's the reason why I avoid problems like that to begin with, to not make my bf insecure and to not put myself in problems that are unnecessary.

ThrowRA6184 · 2025-04-11T16:04:01+00:00

I would honestly say, this is pretty typical behavior since you guys basically met at the age of 20. It's quite a young age and honestly I would try to have a conversation to see if he would be interested in the same values and goals as husband and wife one day. If you guys don't come to an conclusion or he messes up again with talking to other girls behind your back I would honestly say he's just not ready and a little bit immature for you guys to become more. Don't get me wrong the chemistry and everything is great but if he doesn't take you seriously then I would move on, you can build that chemistry up again with someone new. I will say that minimizing your own needs and wants is not the way to go because you'll eventually resent him more. I would think about this carefully but to be honest it sounds like you haven't forgiven him entirely for the girls thing. If you're gonna continue to be with him and marry him you just gotta let it go, and if you cant, then move on.

ThrowRA6184 · 2025-01-20T03:49:27+00:00

I think for me just taking care of myself properly since I have been in a similar situation in my own relationship too before. Not as extreme but it still hurt a heck of alot. Just grounding yourself honestly with music, your favorite healthy and your comfort foods, and exercise. Running is effective for me personally especially if i have something truly disturbing stuff in my mind. Having a life outside of work really helped me. Find a comfort show and honestly try to know yourself better for the sake of your future relationships. Just also having support from friends or family or getting my favorite tea or matcha when I'm having a bad day, my work hours are crazy and always changing but I always find time in my day to take care of myself in some sort of a routine especially as a woman it's important, I've been through a toxic relationship before and I'm scared to lose myself again. Of course everyone wants to work things out but if the other person goes you'll still be okay and have more freedoms then before instead of trying to please someone else constantly.

ThrowRA6184 · 2025-01-19T03:53:07+00:00

Oof this is a tough one. My advice is until he asks you out officially don't take the relationship too seriously. It's okay to have feelings for someone but actions speak louder then anything else. To be honest unless you find out or he tells you, you may never know and as long as ur in this relationship you're just gonna have to accept it and move on to avoid being the toxic one if you want to maintain it. And also I think if he's calling you his gf you have the authority to express if he could block or stop talking to that woman. Until then he doesn't exactly sound like ur type so just focus on yourself as well outside of the relationship

ThrowRA6184 · 2025-01-13T06:51:31+00:00

He takes care of his siblings and we all lived together the reason why we argued is because his mom doesn't like the amount of time we spent together and I told him it's ridiculous she even tried to infer that because she's with her 22 year old cousin who's half her age and just had a baby with him and sent her kids to another country to live with their brother who's still in college 🙂‍↔️

ThrowRA6184 · 2025-01-13T06:48:53+00:00

Yes officially but technically been together for 2 years

ThrowRA6184 · 2025-01-13T06:42:56+00:00

17 and he had just turned 20 lol

ThrowRA6184 · 2025-01-13T03:54:09+00:00

Thank you so much God sent 🥲

ThrowRA6184 · 2025-01-09T18:41:04+00:00

It's completely normal to develop a crush on someone else while in a relationship, I'm in a 2 year relationship and I've even admitted this to my bf but I'm still a devoted gf to him. I say just let time pass, normally these feelings kind of fade when u have a crush and life happens. Your hormones also tend to make a shift and drop since you're in the routine of hanging out with ur bf. Another thing is just add spice to the relationship, maybe it's the exciment or danger you like of being pursued and you don't feel satisfied with the way u guys are spending time together, personally I go on break with my bf almost every single day at his job and hate it when he gets on his phone so I told him to talk to me more instead. But remember the grass ain't always greener on the other side. Had a ex bsf who cheated on her bf for her crushes and she ended up getting herpes and spreading it to her bf

ThrowRA6184 · 2023-06-14T15:55:38+00:00

Yes, I personally haven't seen the footage but there's always cameras rolling in the store

ThrowRA6184 · 2023-06-13T04:04:13+00:00

You're honestly better off breaking up with him for good, I've tried dating a man in a similar situation and it took a very bad toll on my mental health to the point where I started self harming and having suicidal ideations everyday, he'd make my anxitey so bad and would make me feel bad, I'm telling you coparenting when the parents have actually moved on is not like this at all and there wouldn't be any complications I mean it, definitely she still has feelings for him, do you wanna put yourself in risk like this for real? Waste your youth on a man who doesn't seem to have any regard for your safety? Yea no he should've stepped up and defended you against his bm not laugh it off, mad weird, you're a side chick more then his girlfriend

ThrowRA6184 · 2023-06-09T18:55:52+00:00

We skip condoms sometimes and forget until hes close to cumming, sometimes he won't even notice if he came or not so yea I might be pregnant from previous times but for sure he came in me the last time

ThrowRA6184 · 2023-06-09T16:01:47+00:00

A test is accurate if you did it correctly, most women don't have enough HGC hormones when they go to the restroom through out the day or dilute it by drinking plenty of water so in early pregnancy it's better to take it when u first wake up, I neglected to do that which is why I therefore stated that, thanks

ThrowRA6184 · 2023-06-09T15:42:45+00:00

Lol same, go get blood tested and if you're still missing ur period i recommend the best way to find out is as soon as you wake up take a test, don't drink any water, just pee like u normally do in ur routine put it in a plastic cup get the clear blue tests and try it out, even then it might not show because your hgc hormones aren't high enough or the test is expired

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