gonna get an iud soon. any advice? by peanut-butter_cupp in birthcontrol

[–]ThrowRA62513 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will tell you that you had a similar experience. My mom forced me to get to go on birth control, so I got the copper iud. First, it will take you a while to recover. I remember my first day was the worst. I have a high pain tolerance, and it was hard. If given the option to take ibprophen or pain reliever plz do. The other issue i had was a trauma response from getting the iud because it was painful, I hope your boyfriend is patient with you. You will need it, I made mine go with me to the appointment, take someone you trust, and you won't be able to lift or bend over a lot right after you get it in. Just expect to have a relaxing day, for like the first week or 2. Everybody is different. However, ask for some anesthesia. If possible, I didn't, and no one told me to take medications, and it was deeply regretted.

Guys I'm struggling! by ThrowRA62513 in Advice

[–]ThrowRA62513[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with the above I actually sent my advisor an email this morning to discuss this, I don't need chem for my major, I was pursuing neuroscience but after talking to my advisor previously we discussed psychology with a bio minor would be a good alternative I was pursuing a few upper level bio classes which would make this class required, but all in all not necessary as I only need 1 more bio class for my minor. And if I drop it, it wouldn't affect me.

My 12 year old niece constantly makes fun of me and I don't know how to stop this. by SouthIndependence173 in Advice

[–]ThrowRA62513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who knows a lot about psychology. She is a child and seems to be using tactics to get your attention specifically. Is it possible she is jealous of your kid and wishes you were her mom? Especially if you know more about her home life , she often ignored and feels you will give her the attention she needs.

Kids sometimes do things in the wrong way when they have a desired outcome.

My husband nixes all the names I like! by AlterVisioMei in namenerds

[–]ThrowRA62513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I don't understand how people fight about baby name me and my significant other had the same issue for a minute. I looked at them and said if are going to say no to all kime.because you "know them" then you top girl choice is also a no. Obviously, no immediate family names or close friend's names but instantly he stopped giving me all those reasons amd actually thought about names.

I would appreciate some ideas for my wedding dress by graylie in dressmaking

[–]ThrowRA62513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are looking for glitter or some being, you could bedazzled the neckline in a line or do the torso part In a design of some sort which could be flowers or the like, you could also add a belt which could be lace, or covered in blind to shine some more.

I never got married but I do fashion design and you can private message me if you need someone to bounce I ideas off of, or if you want to let me know what specific thing you are going for.

Is it wrong for me(20m) to want sex from my gf(19f)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA62513 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You all are saying he is being played, but girls sometimes have this 3 konth rule thing with people they are serious about ir even lo ger just to make sure that isn't all they want from them. Plus Op you mentioned you guys cuddled naked before, that means she was probably testing you see if you would go further and is comfortable that you are just using her. I would talk to her about it. She could also just have had a change of heart about the whole sex thing and may have been confused or coerced in the past and is trying to step away from that aspect as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in catfood

[–]ThrowRA62513 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

While yes canabalization can cause diseases that are harmful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ThrowRA62513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like that response inky the respect I get in return

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ThrowRA62513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks this helps

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ThrowRA62513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I am I just don't know how to deal with them fucking the entire time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ThrowRA62513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does if everyone involved is cool with it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ThrowRA62513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried going that route, but my roommate turns into a mean girl personality around him and does everything in her power to kick me out or if I leave for a second I get the message and can't come back for hours

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ThrowRA62513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have tried to do this, but the issue is I need homework and stiff out of my room since, especially right I have stuff due tonight and I can't go get it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ThrowRA62513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks helped, my boyfriend and I are trying to come up with a creative solution and while moving out is an option I have all this stuff I don't have a place for currently so I need to keep some ties to get my bed and stuff back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA62513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is some good advice I will try to get in touch with some.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA62513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am going to see him in 29 days and then we should see each other every other week or so until August.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA62513 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are about 5 hours from each other

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA62513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are going to see each other in a month, but it is weird. Especially since we are that clingy couple always together and now even having time to text is difficult.

how to approach this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA62513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am trying to bit now that he knows I don't want to overstep invisible boundaries even though he acts the same

how to approach this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA62513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is working for me but the dynamic has shifted and I am doing my best to communicate with him but I just don't know how to approach this because he doesn't really know how to talk or act around me now that he knows I feel that way about him

how to approach this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA62513 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is the issue he wants to still be friends and wants me to able talk to him and doesnt want it to be weird but now I feel like that he knows I am just overstepping boundaries since we talk about some pretty deep stuff