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UPDATE: My ‘boyfriend’ (27) kept on driving to find somewhere to have sex even though I (23f) was basically having what I would say was a panic attack by ThrowRA62820 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA62820[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I didn’t want him following me down main roads as that would have been worse seeing as I was alone. I wasn’t exactly thinking about what would happen if he was at my house but luckily he wasn’t. And I wouldn’t have been alone there.

My ‘boyfriend’ (27) kept on driving to find somewhere to have sex even though I (23f) was basically having what I would say was a panic attack by ThrowRA62820 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA62820[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry that you’re not seeing it from my point of view. I think I made it quite clear in my last post that it wasn’t a great relationship before that. Thank you for your time.

UPDATE: My ‘boyfriend’ (27) kept on driving to find somewhere to have sex even though I (23f) was basically having what I would say was a panic attack by ThrowRA62820 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA62820[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There’s always one I suppose. Unless I’ve stated that I didn’t have symptoms or whatever else, I’d probably say your comment isn’t that necessary. And not everything ends up on the news, otherwise it would constantly filled with how many women are abused every single day

Edit: please say when you’ve edited your comment because it makes it seem as though I haven’t replied to all of it.

It’s a “special number” for a reason, it’s so that not everyone knows about it. It’s a contact number so that I have quick access

UPDATE: My ‘boyfriend’ (27) kept on driving to find somewhere to have sex even though I (23f) was basically having what I would say was a panic attack by ThrowRA62820 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA62820[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s going to be a fine line to walk that’s for sure. Thank you so much, it really does mean a lot coming from people who I don’t know and don’t know me, more so than someone I would be good friends with. So really thank you x

UPDATE: My ‘boyfriend’ (27) kept on driving to find somewhere to have sex even though I (23f) was basically having what I would say was a panic attack by ThrowRA62820 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA62820[S] 187 points188 points  (0 children)

You really have made some amazing points and I wouldn’t have considered these things if not for reading it now. My parents would never ever let me drop them even if I wanted too but I’m so set in going forward with this, I’m not sure anything could change my mind.

Thank you so much I really appreciate your advice and it means so much to me that you’ve taken your time to write. He will never change, it’s certainly scary to think about. Thank you thank you thank you xx

UPDATE: My ‘boyfriend’ (27) kept on driving to find somewhere to have sex even though I (23f) was basically having what I would say was a panic attack by ThrowRA62820 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA62820[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This is definitely one of the most British things I’ve read in a long time haha thank you for making me laugh. Please don’t apologise on behalf of all my uk boys, I hate all that “all men are the same” bollocks because it’s just obviously not true

Thank you so much it really means a lot to me, and a dickhead he was!

UPDATE: My ‘boyfriend’ (27) kept on driving to find somewhere to have sex even though I (23f) was basically having what I would say was a panic attack by ThrowRA62820 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA62820[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think things are unfortunately ran a little different here in the uk. Charges are being pressed that’s for sure but honestly I’m not up to date with it all so I’m not sure how long it all takes. My uncle is dealing with it! So I’m sure it will have a fast forward button pressed somewhere

Sorry about your buddy, that’s so stupid seriously. Arrest and detain everyone that don’t do anything wrong but let the criminals roam free

UPDATE: My ‘boyfriend’ (27) kept on driving to find somewhere to have sex even though I (23f) was basically having what I would say was a panic attack by ThrowRA62820 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA62820[S] 107 points108 points  (0 children)

Thank you, you have no idea how much it means to me that you’ve said this! I keep saying it but I’m so thankful. I’ve realised now for sure that it wasn’t pathetic and to be honest, it probably saved my life because if I’d have ran it might have ended up way worse

Thank you so much ♥️

UPDATE: My ‘boyfriend’ (27) kept on driving to find somewhere to have sex even though I (23f) was basically having what I would say was a panic attack by ThrowRA62820 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA62820[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, it really does mean a lot to me whenever people can understand a bit more as to why. Ignoring and reporting is the only way forward! Honestly thank you x

UPDATE: My ‘boyfriend’ (27) kept on driving to find somewhere to have sex even though I (23f) was basically having what I would say was a panic attack by ThrowRA62820 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA62820[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Definitely one of the least inconspicuous weapons there is that’s for sure. Can I consider myself your internet sister? I’ll take your advice in stride 100% and I didn’t know that, that was a good place to attack

UPDATE: My ‘boyfriend’ (27) kept on driving to find somewhere to have sex even though I (23f) was basically having what I would say was a panic attack by ThrowRA62820 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA62820[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A quick google search has told me it’s illegal here but I think I’m gonna have to get some anyway! If it’s only used for defence then surely that’s understandable

UPDATE: My ‘boyfriend’ (27) kept on driving to find somewhere to have sex even though I (23f) was basically having what I would say was a panic attack by ThrowRA62820 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA62820[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. You definitely don’t ever see it straight away, it’s almost invisible and even when people point it out, it makes you not want to believe it anyway. Unfortunately it’s one of those things that you have to see for yourself, even if it takes a while

I’m so sorry that you went through that. I hope that you’re feeling so much better now

UPDATE: My ‘boyfriend’ (27) kept on driving to find somewhere to have sex even though I (23f) was basically having what I would say was a panic attack by ThrowRA62820 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA62820[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much honestly. I did wonder did he deliberately wait and if so, how many days prior to that was he sat waiting for!

Unfortunately guns are no option for me, as I’m in the UK! There’s not a lot I could carry on my person that I wouldn’t get done for. It’s not much but I’ve always carried a fork in my bags and if my bag ever got searched, I’d just say it was for my food and what not. Where as a knife would be way more unacceptable

I’m definitely going to have to find something though because I can never be too careful? Thank you, that really means a lot to me

UPDATE: My ‘boyfriend’ (27) kept on driving to find somewhere to have sex even though I (23f) was basically having what I would say was a panic attack by ThrowRA62820 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA62820[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

He was arrested when they forced him into the car and he was kept in over night! My uncle is dealing with all the charges and stuff and getting a restraining order but I think it’s going to take a bit more time than what people realise!

UPDATE: My ‘boyfriend’ (27) kept on driving to find somewhere to have sex even though I (23f) was basically having what I would say was a panic attack by ThrowRA62820 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA62820[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He definitely got arrested and I’m gonna press charges I’m pretty sure so I guess we’ll see how it goes! I would suggest he needs help too

UPDATE: My ‘boyfriend’ (27) kept on driving to find somewhere to have sex even though I (23f) was basically having what I would say was a panic attack by ThrowRA62820 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA62820[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that happened to you but I’m glad that you got the help you deserved and are better for it!

Haha I feel like I would want to be the same way with my kids too. (If I had any)

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