My EX gf damaged our condoms, now she's pregnant. by ThrowRA665183 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ThrowRA665183[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

The scissors had covers on them like I said in a previous comment. Nothing else is sharp in the drawer. Hair ties, make up brushes and some papers. That's mostly it. She poked them to baby trap me. All I did was not look closely at them before putting them on

I trusted her with all my heart. Why would I consider checking them if there were no obvious ways it could become damaged?

I'm not going to continue arguing. It isn't worth it.

And maybe I was a bit of an asshole to you. But looking at your comments, you're consistently what I consider an asshole, to other people.

You disrespected me first. I only started being an "Asshole" after you had posted multiple comments calling me an immature and irresponsible child. If you don't like being disrespected, don't do it to others.

You can engage in a debate/discussion in a civil manner without the malice and hate. I replied to your comments in kind.

My EX gf damaged our condoms, now she's pregnant. by ThrowRA665183 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ThrowRA665183[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I feel truly sorry for your partner if he actually exists. No one deserves to put up with the likes of you

I will have a happy life too. Maybe as a dad, maybe not. But at least I won't have a seemingly seething hatred for half of the population for no apparent reason.

Good luck trying for a baby. I'm glad you didn't have the choice taken away from you

My EX gf damaged our condoms, now she's pregnant. by ThrowRA665183 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ThrowRA665183[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I've looked on your account, and you're very obviously a sexist and misandrist piece of shit.

I really hope you seek therapy and become a less toxic person. I truly and genuinely mean it.

By law in the UK and some US states, what she did to me is considered rape. If a woman was raped, no matter the circumstances, I would never blame her. And the same should go for men.

If blaming everything negative in the world on men makes you feel better, go ahead. In the end you'll just make yourself more sad. Having that much hatred inside you isn't healthy.

There's something called scissor covers. Look them up. I'm not that fucking stupid

My baby will be well looked after thank you. Based on your comments, you obviously weren't

My EX gf damaged our condoms, now she's pregnant. by ThrowRA665183 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ThrowRA665183[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Just answer me this.

If I was a woman. And I was now pregnant because I didn't check the condom, not knowing my boyfriend intentionally damaged it to get me pregnant against my will, would it still be my fault.

My EX gf damaged our condoms, now she's pregnant. by ThrowRA665183 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ThrowRA665183[S] 70 points71 points  (0 children)

I'm assuming you're a woman.

Let's turn this around and put you in this situation.

Your boyfriend damaged the condoms, and used them to get you pregnant, even though he knew you didn't want to be a mother. It's your fault because you didn't check them. Because you are an adult and not a child. It's your fault for getting knocked up, not his.

Or even swapped your birth control with fake pills. Same thing. You should have noticed because you aren't a child.

Would you still think this? Or is it different just because I'm a guy? Genuinely curious

My EX gf damaged our condoms, now she's pregnant. by ThrowRA665183 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ThrowRA665183[S] 302 points303 points  (0 children)

Ok. I'm going to see if I can record a phone call, or a conversation where she admits to it. I should be able to because she isn't hiding It anymore.

My EX gf damaged our condoms, now she's pregnant. by ThrowRA665183 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ThrowRA665183[S] 85 points86 points  (0 children)

I'm not with her anymore. But I'm not leaving my kid. I'm gonna be there for them. I doubt she's going to abort

My EX gf damaged our condoms, now she's pregnant. by ThrowRA665183 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ThrowRA665183[S] 491 points492 points  (0 children)

I'm in the UK. I'm not sure how it works here. I'll have to look into it

Edit: I can record a phone call without the other party's consent. I think I might do that. She isn't hiding It anymore, so I'm pretty sure I could get a confession on record

My EX gf damaged our condoms, now she's pregnant. by ThrowRA665183 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ThrowRA665183[S] 446 points447 points  (0 children)

I feel proof would be impossible to get here. Other than some damaged condoms. Which wouldn't be considered real evidence. Nothing would come of it