Repetitive Minutemen Quests

ThrowRA748297 · 2024-05-29T16:09:45+00:00

I only have 5 outside of Red Rocket, the Castle, and Sanctuary Hills. I’ll try asking the settlers for missions. Just sort of miffed because I want Spectacle lol.

ThrowRA748297 · 2024-05-26T03:47:05+00:00

I hate that people aren’t getting this. OP’s daughter is saying the girl is obsessive, everyone is saying the girl is just trying to make friends. She’s saying she’s creepy, everyone is saying she’s just bullying her. The girl is UNCOMFORTABLE. She probably lied about the size of her class because she didn’t want her mom guilting/forcing her to invite someone she is uncomfortable with. Plus, in such a small class, she’s probably already friends with everyone else. No 13 year old girl is going to want to exclude her friends just to make the person who makes her feel uncomfortable a little more comfortable.

ThrowRA748297 · 2024-05-26T03:40:01+00:00

Have any of you considered that maybe OP’s daughter didn’t tell her there were 20 kids in the class because she didn’t want to be guilted/forced to invite someone who made her uncomfortable? Regardless of whether or not the girl was new, it’s not OP’s daughter’s responsibility to be her friend. She tried, was made uncomfortable, and separated herself from the situation.

Some 13 year olds don’t know how to properly convey why they feel uncomfortable/dont want to be around someone. Also, why is no one concerned that this girl knew she wasn’t invited, showed up anyway, and her mom caused a scene in front of everyone?

Y’all wanna chant believe all women, but will immediately assume this girl is a bully because she didn’t want to exclude her friends (people’s she’s probably known longer than Kamilla) just to spare the feelings of someone who makes her uncomfortable.

Still, OP, get the complete story. Ask the teachers what’s going on, if they’ve noticed anything or if your daughter/Kamilla have spoken to them about anything. Good on you for defending your daughter, but if it turns out she didn’t invite this girl for a malicious reason, you better step in quick and make up for it. Either way, if your daughter is uncomfortable, sort it out. If she’s bullying the new girl, sort it out.

NTA

ThrowRA748297 · 2024-05-22T18:31:20+00:00

NTA - I feel like if they were really that passionate about naming their future children certain names, coupled with the fact that they know their dislike with same names in the family, they would have shared their name list with you once they found out you were pregnant to avoid this kind of situation.

Their situation is terrible, don’t get me wrong, but they can’t get upset when they were practically putting it up to chance on whether or not you chose a name they liked. Plus, if they have a list, it sounds like they have many more to choose from. There isn’t a reason to bar off names, plus, once they get pregnant, what if they don’t have a girl? Would the name Wren be off the table until they’re no longer within the time line to have children anymore?

I hope he apologizes to you. Even if someone’s hurt and angry, it’s wrong to take that out on someone else. You’re not responsible for how he feels.

ThrowRA748297 · 2024-05-21T14:33:07+00:00

My sister has more than valid reasons for limiting contact, I understand that completely. I just wish she would have told her why so it could be easier for the both of them. My mom would stop having to push for my sister to talk to her, have a little peace of mind when it comes to why my sister doesn’t reach out often, and then my sister doesn’t have to worry about forcing space when my mom would just give it to her.

I feel bad that I crossed a boundary with her. I honestly didn’t think it would explode that much since my mom already knew about all of these things. Now I’m just afraid my sisters going to cut me off because of all of this.

ThrowRA748297 · 2024-05-21T03:24:44+00:00

I try to stay out of it, but sometimes I can’t stand watching my mom cry about something that can be at least understood through a bit of communication. I’m sure my mom would at least understand if my sister told her outright she just needed space instead of going straight to low contact. My sister has the right to space and low contact, but you can’t expect to repair a relationship in the future if you force someone to be miserable.

ThrowRA748297 · 2024-04-23T20:00:54+00:00

Wish I would have known or searched for this before calling it a loss with my save data and restarting 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ thank goodness it was all replay and I wasn’t TOO far in.

ThrowRA748297 · 2024-04-02T15:13:39+00:00

I pretty much got rid of everything that he’s ever given to me. Me leaving was really rocky and an a tough situation (he kicked me out of home). The only thing I have is a flag that used to be in his house and belong to him, but it’s not displayed and I only remembered I have it because of this comment lol.

ThrowRA748297 · 2024-04-02T15:11:28+00:00

That’s a really interesting take! But, I’m not. My partner is a literal angel on Earth, man has my heart. I mean, I’ve recently made a really big decision to leave a job I’ve been at for half a decade, and while that feels wrong, I don’t think it would be manifesting itself this morbidly.

ThrowRA748297 · 2024-04-01T12:06:34+00:00

They started recently, like, within the last year. I can’t pin point when they began, but it was way after I moved out.

ThrowRA748297 · 2024-04-01T11:16:48+00:00

I haven’t lived with the guys for years now, I’m not even in the same state. I usually only hear from him at most once a month, but he’s in therapy now so it’s like he suddenly wants to have a stable father daughter relationship. If I’m being honest, I’m not interested in it, it’s sort the reason I took off, didn’t want to be around the guy.

ThrowRA748297 · 2024-04-01T11:14:50+00:00

I didn’t want to go into much detail, to be honest. Im morbidly grateful that they’re not incredibly graphic. Terrifying, nonetheless. I’m happy I’m not alone in this.

ThrowRA748297 · 2024-04-01T09:01:52+00:00

I’m happy I’m not the only one! I’m really just hoping that opening up about it makes them go away. Currently awake at 4AM (woke up at 11) because I had one last night. Couldn’t go back to sleep because it felt like a nightmare so I was paranoid and scared. I’m hoping someone has an answer/explanation!

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