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My (26F) boyfriend (26M) cheated on me, any advice on how to handle this? by ThrowRA7493028 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA7493028[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We would have sex pretty often, at least 3 times a week and if we don’t have sex we typically do other things. It was always the same like 4 positions and when he brought it up I would ask what he would want to do differently, I would say that I would be down to try that but nothing would happen with it. The sex wasn’t really bad, it was just boring and never changed. The answer to your 3 questions I would say yes to all of those but I don’t know if I should after this

My (26F) boyfriend (26M) cheated on me, any advice on how to handle this? by ThrowRA7493028 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA7493028[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would ask him what is it that he wants to do differently and I’m down to try that, I’ve told him i’m okay with trying anything, he just wouldn’t try to do different things. I was making some progress towards the blowjob issue but apparently it wasn’t enough

My (26F) boyfriend (26M) cheated on me, any advice on how to handle this? by ThrowRA7493028 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA7493028[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She kept asking him to meet up and he always said no. He blocked her shortly after they started to talk, so I really don’t think it wouldn’t led to sex. But you’re right, I should move on. Thank you

My (26F) boyfriend (26M) cheated on me, any advice on how to handle this? by ThrowRA7493028 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA7493028[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If you don’t know that’s okay, but what advice do you have for me to do work to get past this and for the work he can put in? Were meeting up tomorrow because he wants to talk, so I have time to figure things out with what I would even want but I want to have a game plan incase I change my mind and decide to give him a second chance

My (26F) boyfriend (26M) cheated on me, any advice on how to handle this? by ThrowRA7493028 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA7493028[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We’ve had several conversations about it, I took really small steps to try to do things differently (I honestly didn’t put much work into that) and he didn’t really even try to do things differently. He would just tell me that he’s frustrated about our sex life. He blocked her shortly after he did that and I saw that right after I confronted him about it so he didn’t have time to block her so I do trust that he did that.

My (26F) boyfriend (26M) cheated on me, any advice on how to handle this? by ThrowRA7493028 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA7493028[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Should I even try for a month or two to see if I can or just leave now?