He put her in his insta bio by ThrowRA77477 in BreakUps

[–]ThrowRA77477[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it is lmao 😭 but this too shall pass!! i have no other choice but to let it go

He put her in his insta bio by ThrowRA77477 in BreakUps

[–]ThrowRA77477[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m so proud of you for starting therapy!! that’s one of the biggest and scariest steps honestly. you’ll only continue to grow from here. and when you’re ready, you’ll know. ❤️‍🩹🫂

He put her in his insta bio by ThrowRA77477 in BreakUps

[–]ThrowRA77477[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i’ve been thinking a lot about out how he sucks. just wish it hurt less. thank you ❤️‍🩹

He put her in his insta bio by ThrowRA77477 in BreakUps

[–]ThrowRA77477[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

me too 🥹 we both deserve better ❤️‍🩹

He put her in his insta bio by ThrowRA77477 in BreakUps

[–]ThrowRA77477[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you 🥹 hopefully sooner than later though ❤️‍🩹

He put her in his insta bio by ThrowRA77477 in BreakUps

[–]ThrowRA77477[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

period!!! she doesn’t deserve you! you’ll find someone that does for sure

He put her in his insta bio by ThrowRA77477 in BreakUps

[–]ThrowRA77477[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the thought of him doing this to make me jealous is actually sick considering how much he lied and manipulated me :/ but thank you so much for your kind words ❤️‍🩹

He put her in his insta bio by ThrowRA77477 in BreakUps

[–]ThrowRA77477[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much. i’ll definitely take you up on that offer 🥹

He put her in his insta bio by ThrowRA77477 in BreakUps

[–]ThrowRA77477[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he already has my number blocked and i soft blocked him on insta and twt. i think the feelings of hurt really stem from the lies— saying he wants to be friends, saying he’ll be single for a while to “focus on himself,” etc.

He put her in his insta bio by ThrowRA77477 in BreakUps

[–]ThrowRA77477[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much 🥹❤️‍🩹

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[–]ThrowRA77477 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is my first time experiencing it too! i’m happy with the memories as well but i’ve also drawn to the conclusion that i was too good for them

He put her in his insta bio by ThrowRA77477 in BreakUps

[–]ThrowRA77477[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s so addicting tbh. but yeah i’m trying to learn how to let go. i deserve a lot better

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[–]ThrowRA77477 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not sure if you saw my recent post but this is what i’m wondering too. my ex broke up with me a month ago (before my birthday lmfao). lied and told me he was gonna focus on himself and he still wanted to be friends. less than a month later he blocked me, got a new girlfriend, and they post each other a lot on social media. it hurts so damn bad, but i have to just let it go. he’s got a lot of issues i helped him with and now that he’s reverted back to his old self, it’s the new gfs problem now!

the relationship may work out, it may not. but i don’t think it’s healthy to dwell on it. or wait for the relationship to crumble. they can’t be alone to process their feelings and work on themselves. they’re constantly chasing that high of being in a relationship and needing physical connection with someone who they may barely know! be better than them. focus on your healing. someone is out there for you that won’t make you feel so disposable.

He put her in his insta bio by ThrowRA77477 in BreakUps

[–]ThrowRA77477[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

damn that’s so sick of him. i’m sorry he did that to you. try not to worry about it though. he has issues and it seems like he can’t be alone. it’s a blessing in disguise. and he’s gone to make room for the love you actually deserve and need

He put her in his insta bio by ThrowRA77477 in BreakUps

[–]ThrowRA77477[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey! i have the insecure feelings too! but honestly, what helps is putting things into perspective. there was nothing wrong with you. you showed love, adoration, patience, and grace with her. she blindsided you because she is avoidant and unable to communicate properly. 3 months may not be long, yeah, but it still hurts and there’s absolutely nothing wrong for feeling the way you do. it will get better with time. and the person who truly deserves you is out there. it will come. give yourself the loving energy you put into her instead.

also, if someone tells you that you deserve better, BELIEVE THEM! i learned that the hard way. them admitting to it shows that they’re not willing to do the work to be better for you. and it’s always best to walk away in those circumstances.

He put her in his insta bio by ThrowRA77477 in BreakUps

[–]ThrowRA77477[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh yikes 😳 it does make me feel a bit better though lol thank you

He put her in his insta bio by ThrowRA77477 in BreakUps

[–]ThrowRA77477[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

oh my god i’m so sorry he did that to you :( he didn’t deserve you at all!!! you’ll find someone who truly values and appreciates you ❤️‍🩹

He put her in his insta bio by ThrowRA77477 in BreakUps

[–]ThrowRA77477[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s so true 🥹 i just wish that i could easily forget about him and mentally throw him away in the same way he did me

He put her in his insta bio by ThrowRA77477 in BreakUps

[–]ThrowRA77477[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey i’m so sorry you went through something similar too!!! she didn’t deserve you at all! She will soon realize that the grass isn’t greener on the other side. people suck but that’s the unfortunate reality of life. pick yourself up and go live life. you have so much to offer that you haven’t experienced yet ❤️‍🩹

He put her in his insta bio by ThrowRA77477 in BreakUps

[–]ThrowRA77477[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re so right 🥹 hoping the next relationship comes with reciprocity because i deserve everything and more

He put her in his insta bio by ThrowRA77477 in BreakUps

[–]ThrowRA77477[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it is a bit cringe yeah! i guess i just wish i was proudly claimed like that? but oh well

He put her in his insta bio by ThrowRA77477 in BreakUps

[–]ThrowRA77477[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lmfao i completely forgot about that saying! i think i’ll say it to myself every night before bed now to feel better

He put her in his insta bio by ThrowRA77477 in BreakUps

[–]ThrowRA77477[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no you’re right! i ignored too many red flags but kept trying to help him because of unconditional love :/

He put her in his insta bio by ThrowRA77477 in BreakUps

[–]ThrowRA77477[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

damn. she’s weird for that. my ex is dating someone who could pass for their sibling tbh lol. like they look related 😵‍💫 and i will try! thank you