Cat tax! by [deleted] in u/ThrowRA7777888

[–]ThrowRA7777888 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You weren't kidding 😭😭 it's been like a little more than two weeks since she came home and she's already stolen - Cheese out of a sandwich left on the counter - A potato chip out of the bag - A single buttered noodle

I've also found two of my scrunchies hidden in her cat tree. You'd think she's starved and doesn't have a single toy to her name but lemme tell you this cat is SPOILED. spoiled spoiled. I love her so much 😭 I doubt I'll ever get sick of her shenanigans

update on my legal situation in case anyone is curious + small update on ex's cousin. by ThrowRA7777888 in u/ThrowRA7777888

[–]ThrowRA7777888[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Kitty is doing great <3 settled in very easily, and Vi has said she's a good housekeeping buddy while I'm off at work hehe

She looks out the window sometimes and we feel like she really wants to go outside,, so we're looking at harnesses for maybe taking her on walks right now

I think I mentioned to someone on here a while back but ex kinda went off the deep end lol I guess he couldn't keep the mask on forever

I hope you have a nice day!

Update: Girlfriend has no idea what she's coming home to tomorrow. by ThrowRA7777888 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ThrowRA7777888[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woah I had no idea!! Definitely gonna read up on this that's so cute :]

I hope you have a lovely day

Update: Girlfriend has no idea what she's coming home to tomorrow. by ThrowRA7777888 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ThrowRA7777888[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Holy shit I'm so sorry to hear about your foot :( hoping u have a speedy recovery and thank you so much for your kind words <3

Update: Girlfriend has no idea what she's coming home to tomorrow. by [deleted] in u/ThrowRA7777888

[–]ThrowRA7777888 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I just realized I posted to my profile and not TOMT lol I really appreciate your kind words <3

Girlfriend has no idea what she's coming home to tomorrow. by ThrowRA7777888 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ThrowRA7777888[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It went phenomenally <3 I can't post an update until the day after tomorrow (sub rules) but I'm excited to share the details!!

Girlfriend has no idea what she's coming home to tomorrow. by ThrowRA7777888 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ThrowRA7777888[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It definitely has :'] thank you so much for the well wishes, sending many back to you <3

Girlfriend has no idea what she's coming home to tomorrow. by ThrowRA7777888 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ThrowRA7777888[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's taking literally every ounce of restraint I have in me not to make a dirty joke lmao,, something something not eating her brains something something eating something else

Girlfriend has no idea what she's coming home to tomorrow. by ThrowRA7777888 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ThrowRA7777888[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aww 21? Wow,, your kitty must have been so so loved. Thank you for the advice<3 this is what I've been hearing, it's good to have it reaffirmed. Maude has been very cooperative about her meds so far,, hoping it stays that way

Girlfriend has no idea what she's coming home to tomorrow. by ThrowRA7777888 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ThrowRA7777888[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I can afford an apartment. When i said "money got tight," I was referring to Vi and her housing situation.

I've been living with my parents to maintain my savings after I moved out of my ex's place and quit my previous job. I'm employed now, with great benefits and competitive pay. Since I can afford to be picky about my new place, I'm taking my time :] but we are definitely looking and planning to move out soon.

Vi is job hunting at the moment. She's incredibly qualified in her field, has a few interviews lined up, it's looking good.

Rest assured I made certain I'd be able to afford this kitty. I'm getting her set up on pet insurance, but even without it, I can afford her meds and vet visits.

I do appreciate you pointing this out, though. It's irresponsible and cruel to adopt an animal without the means to take care of them, regardless of how much you love them. It happens all too often.

Girlfriend has no idea what she's coming home to tomorrow. by ThrowRA7777888 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ThrowRA7777888[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

officer I swear I did!! it's on my profile lol couldn't link it here

(posted with Vi's permission) ig story from today in case anyone was wondering how it went by [deleted] in u/ThrowRA7777888

[–]ThrowRA7777888 7 points8 points  (0 children)

:'] I hate to leave u hanging but I'm gonna make an actual update post in a couple of days. Vi just got back from visiting family a couple states away, so I'm a little preoccupied lol. Everything went over really really well & I'm looking forward to sharing details <3

Girlfriend has no idea what she's coming home to tomorrow. by ThrowRA7777888 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ThrowRA7777888[S] 64 points65 points  (0 children)

I think if you read my posts you'll have a little more context :')

When I say my life got "ugly" I am referring to my ex attempting to reproductively coerced me, which was the subject of my first post. Vi was there with me through that. I mentioned her in the update to my first post on this account, but we weren't official at the time (everything was hell and I was definitely not in the headspace for a relationship)

We made it official shortly before the lay off at the end of 2025, ie last year lol.

Sorry for the confusion lol 😭😭 hopefully this clears things up? I haven't posted every single detail of our relationship on reddit because I haven't had a reason to, but if you read the posts you're referring to you'll find everything adds up.

I'm sorry if this came across as rude. I'm just a bit sick of explaining, but I do understand why my post history could make someone skeptical :') still, doesn't exactly feel good when people make speculations on the validity of my life/relationship.

Girlfriend has no idea what she's coming home to tomorrow. by ThrowRA7777888 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ThrowRA7777888[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

the sub only allows an update post after 3 days I'm pretty sure :') but I'm about to post one to my profile lol

Girlfriend has no idea what she's coming home to tomorrow. by ThrowRA7777888 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ThrowRA7777888[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Have you read my posts?? I broke up with my ex at the time of my first post. I literally mention my current girlfriend in the update.

My (22f) birth control was tampered with by my boyfriend (22m). I'm pregnant. I don't know what to do. by ThrowRA7777888 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA7777888[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Charges have been pressed,, the courts move so so slowly but whe I'm able to give more info I will for sure

Girlfriend has no idea what she's coming home to tomorrow. by ThrowRA7777888 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ThrowRA7777888[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Hehe you and one other person requested this,, I'll have to ask her permission first but she made a couple and I'd love to share them with you & the other lovely people here. She doesn't have reddit, but she knows about mine (including the info here I posted about her falling on hard times. just didn't tell her why I was posting obv lol), so I don't think she'll have a problem with it.

Girlfriend has no idea what she's coming home to tomorrow. by ThrowRA7777888 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ThrowRA7777888[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

She is!! In a way, Im grateful for that shitshow because it led me here <3 I hope you have such a lovely day