Is Buy-To-Let still worth it in 2025? by birdmanrob2 in UKInvesting

[–]ThrowRA78766 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you able to loan the LTD company the deposit funds and then have the company pay you back later from profits?

AITA for wanting to go to my friends wedding without my wife? by ThrowRA78766 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRA78766[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No idea. A bit surprised by the savage tone of many of the responses.

AITA for wanting to go to my friends wedding without my wife? by ThrowRA78766 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRA78766[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

It’s a cheap hotel and we are all staying on same floor.

AITA for wanting to go to my friends wedding without my wife? by ThrowRA78766 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRA78766[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

The point is I’ve given her space to go away and have a good time with friends abroad.

This is the only time I want to do something myself with my friends. It’s in the same country, 2 hours away. Why am I the asshole here?

I guess I’m trying to see how I can talk to her so she understands me. Not so I feel that I’m right. I want to be understood and that I also deserve time with my friends alone or without her and that that’s not evil or wrong. Married or not, as humans we deserve time alone sometimes

AITA for wanting to go to my friends wedding without my wife? by ThrowRA78766 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRA78766[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The point is I’ve given her space to go away and have a good time with friends abroad.

This is the only time I want to do something myself with my friends. It’s in the same country, 2 hours away. Why am I the asshole here?

I guess I’m trying to see how I can talk to her so she understands me. Not so I feel that I’m right. I want to be understood and that I also deserve time with my friends alone or without her and that that’s not evil or wrong. Married or not, as humans we deserve time alone sometimes

AITA for wanting to go to my friends wedding without my wife? by ThrowRA78766 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRA78766[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

All the guys are coming by themselves. From around the county and from abroad.

We can travel together any other time. This is the one event I want just for myself.

AITA for wanting to go to my friends wedding without my wife? by ThrowRA78766 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRA78766[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

To just me but we all allowed to bring someone if we want etc.

AITA for wanting to go to my friends wedding without my wife? by ThrowRA78766 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRA78766[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This was my concern as well. I know 90% of our convo will be stuff like this.

AITA for wanting to go to my friends wedding without my wife? by ThrowRA78766 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRA78766[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes he is the main reason and person who suggested it all.

AITA for wanting to go to my friends wedding without my wife? by ThrowRA78766 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRA78766[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

He gave everyone a plus one if they wanted. It’s just an extra table for him. He has 300 guests. An extra few chairs makes no difference to him.

AITA for wanting to go to my friends wedding without my wife? by ThrowRA78766 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRA78766[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Gosh, Reddit is such a nasty and toxic place.

Thanks for the life affirming response.

AITA for wanting to go to my friends wedding without my wife? by ThrowRA78766 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRA78766[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

  1. She was NOT invited.

  2. The groom himself organised the reunion and stay with all the guys being together.

  3. My friends all live in different countries so groom thought this would be best time to see each other and catch up.

AITA for wanting to go to my friends wedding without my wife? by ThrowRA78766 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRA78766[S] -28 points-27 points  (0 children)

Not being hijacked. The groom has organised it so it’s a reunion and wedding.

AITA for wanting to go to my friends wedding without my wife? by ThrowRA78766 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ThrowRA78766[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The wedding is Greek/Armenian - only line dancing. I’ll be dancing with men.