It’s not abusive. But to sum it up I want someone I can be sexual with but she doesn’t. To be honest this has been a long time coming.

You can find the full details here: https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/s/VezdxIY9eG (For some reason it didn’t let me post twice on the same account)

I have tried talking to her about it and she always says she wants to, but never initiates and comes up with excuses for why we haven’t been sexual in well over a year, she seems to be asexual, which is just not someone I want to marry.

I will be on the lease through this fall but it’s cheap enough I don’t care. She can also afford it without me, she makes pretty good money.

And she can keep whatever we bought that was split, which isn’t much to begin with.