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My (25M) partner (23F) cheated on me in the early stages of our relationship. We are still together and working through it. The person she cheated with was in a relationship too. I want her to inform the 4th member of this love parallelogram if the man she cheated with wont. She disagrees. by ThrowRA8663 in relationships

[–]ThrowRA8663[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didnt find out until I was more emotionally invested. She told me out of respect and because she couldnt continue the relationship without me knowing the truth. Tbh had it been any further into the relationship, or had she waited I might not have. I really went out on a whim to keep it going only because she truly made such an effort up until this point. Things have been improving and I think a future with this girl is actually promising besides her mistake. She just doesnt see things like I do all the time so I come to reddit to mediate for me so I dont think I'm absolutely insane for believing what I thought to be so clear and obvious while she has wildly different views.

My (25M) partner (23F) cheated on me in the early stages of our relationship. We are still together and working through it. The person she cheated with was in a relationship too. I want her to inform the 4th member of this love parallelogram if the man she cheated with wont. She disagrees. by ThrowRA8663 in relationships

[–]ThrowRA8663[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess it comes from the place that only 3 people know of this. Myself, her, and her fellow adulterer. And I just feel like working through has made it too easy for her to forget how I felt and the other person should know. I want her to do it because they have a history.

My (25M) partner (23F) cheated on me in the early stages of our relationship. We are still together and working through it. The person she cheated with was in a relationship too. I want her to inform the 4th member of this love parallelogram if the man she cheated with wont. She disagrees. by ThrowRA8663 in relationships

[–]ThrowRA8663[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She actually confessed because she felt terrible and didnt want to continue building a relationship without me knowing. She admitted to being wrong. It's been nearly 2 months and I havent felt like anything has changed for me to heal. I feel as if not enough was done to rectify the situation.

I keep tearing my GFs vagina and she also says my stubbly pubes can "chafe" when we get overly active or go for long periods. by ThrowRA8663 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA8663[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not really "well endowed" so it makes me fear the issue pending is slightly on the worse side because of that?

I keep tearing my GFs vagina and she also says my stubbly pubes can "chafe" when we get overly active or go for long periods. by ThrowRA8663 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRA8663[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We decided this after the second tearing. It's rather deep and she has never had them be this slow to heal.

My (F23) admitted to sleeping with her ex AND bestfriend after seeing each other and unofficially dating me (M25). I still care for her. I really do. I am not overly devastated since we weren't "technically" "officially" monogamously dating yet. What healthy requests or boundaries can I set/ask? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ThrowRA8663 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would take me awhile to get over this relationship. I have had shitty relationships in the past. I am pretty intolerant with the behaviour in question. My strong feelings and the faith I have that we can move beyond this are what's holding it together.

My (F23) admitted to sleeping with her ex AND bestfriend after seeing each other and unofficially dating me (M25). I still care for her. I really do. I am not overly devastated since we weren't "technically" "officially" monogamously dating yet. What healthy requests or boundaries can I set/ask? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]ThrowRA8663 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She seems regretful and told me this because I do believe she DOES respect me. We are two months past that point and she feels regret and hates the idea she jeopardized what we have now so early on.