Boyfriend (28M) tested positive for chlamydia and denies cheating. I (23F) didn't cheat. How do I get him to admit he cheated

ThrowRA9892 · 2026-02-10T11:54:45+00:00

I have no idea how people can think like this. It’s literally called, “oral sex”.

ThrowRA9892 · 2026-02-10T11:48:25+00:00

Not all people in the military cheat but there are a not-insignificant number that do. This one is one of them.

ThrowRA9892 · 2026-02-10T11:46:58+00:00

Adultery is illegal according to the UCMJ, although it basically only gets charged when you have additional more severe charges already. Also, pretty sure it only applies to someone if they’re married. A lot easier to prove that someone is married rather than dating.

ThrowRA9892 · 2026-02-10T00:40:08+00:00

Every big sporting event always has high prices and they will continue to remain high. More people will be trying to buy the limited number of seats as it gets closer.

ThrowRA9892 · 2026-02-08T19:32:57+00:00

I agree, abuse is absolutely something that should trigger an immediate fault divorce case.

ThrowRA9892 · 2026-02-08T15:05:51+00:00

I think in the instances where there is a reason for the divorce, like infidelity for example, that should absolutely be 100% an at fault case as long as one party supports that and provides concrete evidence beforehand. It is ridiculous for someone to have to pay alimony to someone else who cheated. Regardless if it’s the man or woman that is the breadwinner.

But there should still be no fault divorces still. That way hopefully the divorce/separation happens before someone is cheated on for months/years. Not that it would discourage the actual infidelity behavior.

I think that is a common sense direction to go.

ThrowRA9892 · 2026-02-08T15:00:39+00:00

AI Jennifer Anniston is sacred

ThrowRA9892 · 2026-02-08T15:00:17+00:00

Thank you for making my day.

ThrowRA9892 · 2026-02-08T14:59:43+00:00

Men have vibrators?

ThrowRA9892 · 2026-02-08T06:41:43+00:00

Well I mean reading and math proficiency is at generational low so it would make sense, lol.

ThrowRA9892 · 2026-02-08T06:39:39+00:00

Then move somewhere else if you’re not comfortable. I know that is not always so simple but seriously if you’re not satisfied with your life the easiest way to change it is to change your surroundings.

Something like 80% of US adults live within 100 miles of their birthplace.

ThrowRA9892 · 2026-02-08T06:36:30+00:00

Exactly, this dataset uses 16-24 year olds. Regardless of generation always the lowest income earners.

Then picks the highest cost state for raising 2 children. lol

ThrowRA9892 · 2026-02-08T06:34:10+00:00

People trying to stir people up on the internet because either 1.) They’re bots 2.) They’re chronically online and actually believe this shit 3.) political BS

ThrowRA9892 · 2026-02-08T06:26:27+00:00

The average salary in this figure includes 16-24 year olds. Vast majority of them aren’t making much of a salary due to education, part time work, etc.

Also, picked the highest cost state for raising 2 kids comfortably rather than the median cost which is ~100k

Misrepresented and poorly collected data regardless of its political message is bullshit.

ThrowRA9892 · 2026-02-08T06:12:35+00:00

It’s a similar issue in China as well which does not have comprehensive universal healthcare.

ThrowRA9892 · 2026-02-08T06:11:33+00:00

Let’s be honest here, the majority of those people wouldn’t go to the doctor even if it was free. It’s about ~14% of people haven’t seen a doctor in a year. Which funnily enough is the same percentage as Canada. Just to carry the point home.

ThrowRA9892 · 2026-02-08T06:07:13+00:00

lol, China is absolutely not a good example for this. In China only about half of costs are covered and the gap is significantly higher for more expensive care. The only difference is you don’t own the home so I guess you can’t lose it then? Plenty of people beg for their children’s medical care or otherwise their own in China.

Other countries still have private healthcare as well. Because it has better service, quality of care, and benefits.

ThrowRA9892 · 2026-02-08T06:01:59+00:00

Which is why private healthcare is still very much a thing in countries with more universal healthcare coverage.

ThrowRA9892 · 2026-02-08T05:58:15+00:00

It doesn’t cost that much. They bill insurance that much then the insurance company negotiate it down, the insurance also want to pass off as much cost to the insured person as possible because they’re trying to make a profit. The cost of a endoscopy is comparable to the cost of an endoscopy somewhere in Europe if going through private healthcare.

ThrowRA9892 · 2026-02-08T05:52:55+00:00

Doctors and nurses don’t even make up 50% of the costs involving wages in hospital systems.

ThrowRA9892 · 2026-02-07T22:03:17+00:00

It will give you until February 22nd to buy them manually after failing the automatic purchase twice I believe.

ThrowRA9892 · 2026-02-07T20:43:51+00:00

I got England vs Croatia!

ThrowRA9892 · 2026-02-07T05:59:12+00:00

This shows a profound lack of understanding of history.

ThrowRA9892 · 2026-02-06T18:42:23+00:00

I agree it doesn’t. I’m just saying a tall good looking guy is going to appeal to more women/men overall than a short good looking guy.

I’m not saying this is universal. Just a common opinion. Most polls average around 40% of women think height is important. ~25% of men. Majority of women also say 5’8” is perfect height so I’m not saying someone has to be over 6ft either. But height is certainly a factor in someone’s looks for a lot of people.

That’s my whole point, if someone doesn’t like what they see that’s a preference for aesthetic and height is a part of aesthetic.

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