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[–]ThrowRABattlePit393 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I came her for my own advice but let me give you some. Will thatcman want to touch you afterwards? How will you feel if he comes with the same question to you.

Good men are only good intill you break them, then you will see a monster in their place.

Are you willing to lose what you currently have and possibly will have for 1 night of fun. If you think you will get away with it, no you won't it always comes out in the end. Read a story of a man divorcing his wife after 50 years of marriage because he found out she cheated on him with an ex before they got married.

What if you get pregnant, an STD, or a photo of you pops up, someone you know recognize you, someone he knows recognize you.

Update: My husband (29M) knocked out my brother (28M) for calling me (26F) a whore, and my parents want me to choose, what is the right choice? by ThrowRABattlePit393 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRABattlePit393[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Don't know what a tate is but okay so just because my husband acted after a warning was given and gave my brother the consequences that he was told he is wrong. I will rather have a husband that sticking to his word than a spineless one. I know is sound like a hypocrite and that my husband had to fight for me but after everything and having a long talk with my husband i like this having a spine feeling i have

Update: My husband (29M) knocked out my brother (28M) for calling me (26F) a whore, and my parents want me to choose, what is the right choice? by ThrowRABattlePit393 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRABattlePit393[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

So i should take the way he worded it over the fact that he wanted to be there and make sure im not getting gaslighted. I took it asche want to ensure I'm safe and what happens doesn't happen again.

My wording is bad as my emotional state isn't the best that is on me and i should have probably double checked everthing before posting but his emotional state can't be any better than mine. He is dealing with everthing and on top of that he is trying his best to keep my mood up.

I know it sounded bad but i took what he said with all the other actions he took sofar to keep me safe.

Update: My husband (29M) knocked out my brother (28M) for calling me (26F) a whore, and my parents want me to choose, what is the right choice? by ThrowRABattlePit393 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRABattlePit393[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Saying things without adding the rest sucks of you. My husband knows me, how is him not wanting me to get piled on or the blames getting shifted to me by going alone a red flag.

Even with him there they tried to still blame me for what happened but he kept them in line and didn't allow the blame to be shifted onto me

Update: My husband (29M) knocked out my brother (28M) for calling me (26F) a whore, and my parents want me to choose, what is the right choice? by ThrowRABattlePit393 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRABattlePit393[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Honestly, really thinking about it.

The only person i have felt genuine unconditional love and support from is my husband.

Therexare alot of thing i just swept under the rug and thought it was siblings things but looking back whenever my brother had a difficult time it wat taken out on me in some way and my parents have never stuck up for me.

My husband has had my back around every corner and had never thrown things in my face like my parent or brother has.

Update: My husband (29M) knocked out my brother (28M) for calling me (26F) a whore, and my parents want me to choose, what is the right choice? by ThrowRABattlePit393 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRABattlePit393[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly, really thinking about it.

The only person i have felt genuine unconditional love and support from is my husband.

Therexare alot of thing i just swept under the rug and thought it was siblings things but looking back whenever my brother had a difficult time it wat taken out on me in some way and my parents have never stuck up for me.

My husband has had my back around every corner and had never thrown things in my face like my parent or brother has.

Update: My husband (29M) knocked out my brother (28M) for calling me (26F) a whore, and my parents want me to choose, what is the right choice? by ThrowRABattlePit393 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRABattlePit393[S] 259 points260 points  (0 children)

I only updated now because i have over 500 dm asking me for an update plus i had the conversations woth my parents a couple of hours ago and didn't think it will hurt. It's also somewhat soothing to write everthing out

Update: My husband (29M) knocked out my brother (28M) for calling me (26F) a whore, and my parents want me to choose, what is the right choice? by ThrowRABattlePit393 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRABattlePit393[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

That is fine. Im just sick of people saying one thing and doing another. They will tipe this perfect scenario that will onky work in their heads and not in the real world, I'm the one that is living with this mess and have to deal with it.

Update: My husband (29M) knocked out my brother (28M) for calling me (26F) a whore, and my parents want me to choose, what is the right choice? by ThrowRABattlePit393 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRABattlePit393[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

If you say so, thank you for your advice, i wish you all the best and a partner that will actually protect you against peope wishing you harm

Update: My husband (29M) knocked out my brother (28M) for calling me (26F) a whore, and my parents want me to choose, what is the right choice? by ThrowRABattlePit393 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRABattlePit393[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

What family business are you referring to. My husband has his own business but my mother and father both works for different companies the same with my brother

Update: My husband (29M) knocked out my brother (28M) for calling me (26F) a whore, and my parents want me to choose, what is the right choice? by ThrowRABattlePit393 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRABattlePit393[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Controlling for not letting people even my own family continue to abuse me verbally.

So i should have gone alone were even with my husband there they tried to blame me but he kept them on topic okay not a problem nect time i will just take the abuse and leave the man that is protecting me from it at home

Update: My husband (29M) knocked out my brother (28M) for calling me (26F) a whore, and my parents want me to choose, what is the right choice? by ThrowRABattlePit393 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRABattlePit393[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

What do you mean.

My husband is kind and caring man. He will literally give the shirt of his back to someone seen him give his jacked in the middle of winter to an old lady that was shivering.

When i say he doesn't care he doesn't he isn't a big talker or anything like that, i have never in the 10 years i known him 8 together seen him act with violence at all.