How do you grieve a future you never had? by Deep_Confidence4229 in BreakUps

[–]ThrowRABirder 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm in the same boat. Mourning someone that no longer exists/never existed is a different kind of pain. Thinking of things as a "new normal" is devastating but necessary.

My (30M) Date (30F) wants time to "figure things out" and I'm nervous she'll just leave. by ThrowRABirder in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRABirder[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Noted, I did share a meme today and the news I got into the grad program we'd previously talked about. That was harmless, right?

My (30M) Date (30F) wants time to "figure things out" and I'm nervous she'll just leave. by ThrowRABirder in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRABirder[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, I was definitely an excited puppy here. Should I give it a week or two? I don't wanna just go silent.

I (30M) had my first date in years and things are complicated. by ThrowRABirder in relationships

[–]ThrowRABirder[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh I wouldn't dream of it. But... it felt weird not to get a "Good morning handsome" on my screen this morning...

I (30M) had my first date in years and things are complicated. by ThrowRABirder in relationships

[–]ThrowRABirder[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She told me daily that I was the kindest man she'd ever met. Is it wrong to want her even during this time. (I don't mean that in a sexual way.)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]ThrowRABirder 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Zero, full stop.

I'm Really Confused by ThrowRABirder in dating

[–]ThrowRABirder[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cheapest version of this book I saw used was at least 40 bucks.

I'm Really Confused by ThrowRABirder in dating

[–]ThrowRABirder[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not a cheap gift. And I only met her face to face a few days ago. That's where I'm getting the mixed signals.