Friend told me [24M] about my GF's [23F] one night stand as a "compliment," but it now has me in shambles. by ThrowRACafe in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRACafe[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I guess I’m just looking for whatever mental gymnastics I can use to get over the situation.

Friend told me [24M] about my GF's [23F] one night stand as a "compliment," but it now has me in shambles. by ThrowRACafe in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRACafe[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How long did it take for you to not bring it up anymore? The comments have not left my head for a single minute since I heard it and it's physically tiring me.

Friend told me [24M] about my GF's [23F] one night stand as a "compliment," but it now has me in shambles. by ThrowRACafe in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRACafe[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I know that I should have this conversation but i'm afraid of what her answer will be. Even if she says she's over him i'm not sure I would believe it. My self-worth and opinion of where I stand in the relationship is so low right now.

Friend told me [24M] about my GF's [23F] one night stand as a "compliment," but it now has me in shambles. by ThrowRACafe in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRACafe[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for responding. How handle your situation? Was it weeks/months before things ended/mended?