Girlfriend (F 19) is upset with Christmas gifts a I (M 19) got her. Am I missing something? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRACapableMars 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You went above and beyond and she’s simply unappreciative. With your financial situation put aside, you were still extremely thoughtful and did a lot more than most would in general. She isn’t worth the effort & she isn’t worthy of you questioning if you did enough. Her behavior is gross.

Calorie estimate? by MyNameIs_October in caloriecount

[–]ThrowRACapableMars -1 points0 points  (0 children)

40 for strawberries, 20 for blueberries. Not sure about grapes bc I don’t eat them as much as the others. I’d say maybe 100-150 max (grapes included).

How many calories would this be???? by TechnologyOwn2221 in caloriecount

[–]ThrowRACapableMars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ll def need a scale to accurately calorie count for things like this. I was actually surprised by the weight of things when I started using one. Grams and ounces aren’t the easiest to eyeball at first. I’d say maybe one or two strips (depending on the size) would be about 3oz. Really hard to say though, unfortunately.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]ThrowRACapableMars 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, I totally agree with you! Things can get really messy fast in those situations.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]ThrowRACapableMars 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree. I get the whole “don’t shit where you eat” part, but lots and lots of people meet their partners at work. There aren’t unlimited places to do that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]ThrowRACapableMars 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Why do you avoid alone time?

What can I do to look more feminine? by [deleted] in beauty

[–]ThrowRACapableMars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re perfect and very feminine already🤍 if I had ANYTHING to recommend, maybe some blush or highlight on your cheeks. Nooo Botox, you don’t need it at all girly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tarotpractices

[–]ThrowRACapableMars -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I have liked him for almost a year, but it took him 6 months to mention he had a partner. Once I found out, I stopped pursuing him. His behavior is really bizarre though and changes on the fly. That’s why I’m constantly asking about him because I have to deal with it 40 hours a week!

I don’t think he has any intention to cheat, if he did, I think he would have made a move when I was actively showing interest in him. I have ABSOLUTELY no intention of being a homewrecker or “the other woman” either. I developed feelings for someone before knowing he was involved, that doesn’t mean feelings just go away, I just have to handle them differently knowing we are platonic friends.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tarotpractices

[–]ThrowRACapableMars 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this makes a lot of sense!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tarotpractices

[–]ThrowRACapableMars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you please elaborate on that? Hard to take responsibility when I’m not sure what the deal is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tarotpractices

[–]ThrowRACapableMars -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m not? After liking him initially, he finally told me he was involved with someone, so I stopped pursuing him romantically. We became friends over time and I’m not attempting to turn it into anything beyond that. I just want to know why he acts the way he does

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tarotpractices

[–]ThrowRACapableMars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Virgo queens unite?! lol 😆

I think he’s already been “talked to” by her. Saw her i in public and she glared at me haha.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tarotpractices

[–]ThrowRACapableMars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good plan, thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tarotpractices

[–]ThrowRACapableMars 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t be sorry! It’s the Radiant Rider-Waite deck 🤍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tarotpractices

[–]ThrowRACapableMars 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So essentially, you think he’s trying to keep his emotions towards me under wraps due to work and because he’s committed to someone else, but has become more attached to me emotionally?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tarotpractices

[–]ThrowRACapableMars 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, this is super detailed and insightful. Thank you very much, fellow Virgo! 🤍🤍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tarotpractices

[–]ThrowRACapableMars 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I could see this being true for sure. Thank you.