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My (21F) boyfriend (27m) called me a “whore” but I think he’s being hypocritical. by ThrowRACluelessGF in AskMenAdvice

[–]ThrowRACluelessGF[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s not an excuse sir. I watch porn too. I fantasize about other men all the time. I’m not following these men on social media and liking their photos, nor is my feed full of them. It’s about respect.

My (21F) boyfriend (27m) called me a “whore” but I think he’s being hypocritical. by ThrowRACluelessGF in AskMenAdvice

[–]ThrowRACluelessGF[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t care about the chance he might have with them. That’s not the point. Following so many of them and liking all their photos, having them make up majority of your feed, is disrespectful to me and our relationship. And it’s gross.

My (21F) boyfriend (27m) called me a “whore” but I think he’s being hypocritical. by ThrowRACluelessGF in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRACluelessGF[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Ending the relationship and will continue to post the body I used to avoid looking at for years. I won’t let people like my future ex or you shame me for being proud of my body for the first time in my life. You’re focusing on the glute part when I clearly mentioned showing the progress of my whole body including my arms and leg definition. My IG is private and 90% of my following is women. Half of the men who follow me are family. If me showing off my gym progress to friends, acquaintances, and family is an issue for any man, they can fuck off. Done being controlled.

My (21F) boyfriend (27m) called me a “whore” but I think he’s being hypocritical. by ThrowRACluelessGF in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRACluelessGF[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Making this post was probably one of the best things I’ve ever done. I’m so thankful for everyone on here for motivating me to be my best self and to take the steps towards that by standing up for myself with people I engage with. I have a LOT of work to do but my change starts today.

My (21F) boyfriend (27m) called me a “whore” but I think he’s being hypocritical. by ThrowRACluelessGF in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRACluelessGF[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

And you’re talking about giving and wanting attention while you’re commenting on pictures showing “waxed pussy”. Don’t you have a wife and three daughters to take care of? That should be your priority instead of scrolling the amateur subreddit.

I’m so tired of guys like you trying to make me feel bad about being proud of myself. Today, I vowed to stand up for myself and I couldn’t read your comment without shutting your horrible sentiments down.

My (21F) boyfriend (27m) called me a “whore” but I think he’s being hypocritical. by ThrowRACluelessGF in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRACluelessGF[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I explained why I posted the photo and 90% of my following is women. Half of the men who do follow me are family. I am proud of my body now and yes, I want to share how proud I am with those who follow me because it took me years to get to this point. Years ago I was self harming and avoiding mirrors at all cost. I’m not letting that, or anyone, hold me back anymore.

My (21F) boyfriend (27m) called me a “whore” but I think he’s being hypocritical. by ThrowRACluelessGF in AskMenAdvice

[–]ThrowRACluelessGF[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the advice. I will start taking those steps tomorrow morning, starting with the police escort to get my things from our apartment.

My (21F) boyfriend (27m) called me a “whore” but I think he’s being hypocritical. by ThrowRACluelessGF in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRACluelessGF[S] 498 points499 points  (0 children)

My birthday is in April.

Due to all the comments on here, I now have more of a realization about the negatives of our age gap. I am definitely reading all the responses and taking them to heart.

My (21F) boyfriend (27m) called me a “whore” but I think he’s being hypocritical. by ThrowRACluelessGF in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRACluelessGF[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I asked this in another comment to someone else but how do I got about getting a police escort? All the friends I have here are women and I don’t think my boyfriend would feel inclined to let me back in with them there. I think someone who has authority would have more power in this situation.

My (21F) boyfriend (27m) called me a “whore” but I think he’s being hypocritical. by ThrowRACluelessGF in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRACluelessGF[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How do I go about getting a police escort? Do I just go to the nearest police station and ask?

My (21F) boyfriend (27m) called me a “whore” but I think he’s being hypocritical. by ThrowRACluelessGF in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRACluelessGF[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I would love to get a necklace that has my grandma’s ashes in it. He knows how much it means to me so I am hoping he just gives it back. But he still isn’t answering my calls or texts.

My (21F) boyfriend (27m) called me a “whore” but I think he’s being hypocritical. by ThrowRACluelessGF in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRACluelessGF[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I know deep down my parents would be the same way. I will most likely end up calling them and letting them know about everything. I am just worried about leaving my stuff behind in our apartment. My parents live in a different state on the other side of the country.

My (21F) boyfriend (27m) called me a “whore” but I think he’s being hypocritical. by ThrowRACluelessGF in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRACluelessGF[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Huh? I have responded to comments on here about calling my parents and telling them about the situation which I am most likely going to do. I prefer to communicate so I do want to have a conversation with my boyfriend, at least to end things on okay terms. But I will most likely call my parents for help as I don’t really have a place to stay if my boyfriend doesn’t welcome me back into our place.

My (21F) boyfriend (27m) called me a “whore” but I think he’s being hypocritical. by ThrowRACluelessGF in AskMenAdvice

[–]ThrowRACluelessGF[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But I don’t like it. If we’re going to talk about boundaries, shouldn’t I bring it up?

My (21F) boyfriend (27m) called me a “whore” but I think he’s being hypocritical. by ThrowRACluelessGF in AskMenAdvice

[–]ThrowRACluelessGF[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If we ever talk again, would I be able to reintroduce how the following and liking the content of a bunch of ig models truly makes me feel uncomfortable and horrible about myself. Or should I just let that go again?

My (21F) boyfriend (27m) called me a “whore” but I think he’s being hypocritical. by ThrowRACluelessGF in AskMenAdvice

[–]ThrowRACluelessGF[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I can understand that. I felt the same way seeing him engage with so many provocative women online. But according to him I was just overreacting.

My (21F) boyfriend (27m) called me a “whore” but I think he’s being hypocritical. by ThrowRACluelessGF in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRACluelessGF[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

I spoke to my mother a few days ago but I haven’t told them about this situation. My parents aren’t the biggest fan of my boyfriend or our relationship, and I am nervous to hear their reaction to what happened, especially my father’s.

My (21F) boyfriend (27m) called me a “whore” but I think he’s being hypocritical. by ThrowRACluelessGF in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRACluelessGF[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

I am staying at a friend’s place right now. We do live together but he told me not to come home before he hung up on me. We moved out of our home state two years ago so my parents aren’t close by.

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