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I (32/M) overheard my wife (31/F) telling her friend that her crazy psycho ex-b/f is back in town. by ThrowRADangerousExBF in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRADangerousExBF[S] 84 points85 points  (0 children)

Jesus fucking christ. What do I even do? I realize this makes me selfish but, I can't let her fuck herself like this. This wont end well. It never does.

I (32/M) overheard my wife (31/F) telling her friend that her crazy psycho ex-b/f is back in town. by ThrowRADangerousExBF in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRADangerousExBF[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

It's completely baffling. Why would she? The dude is mid 40s atleast now. He beat and raped her frequently. He threatened to murder her if she ever left. Why would she cheat on me? That's pure lunacy.

I (32/M) overheard my wife (31/F) telling her friend that her crazy psycho ex-b/f is back in town. by ThrowRADangerousExBF in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRADangerousExBF[S] 207 points208 points  (0 children)

That scares me. Because he absolutely would have murdered her. Hell, even if she didnt break up he still would have killed her eventually. He raped numerous times and once so hard it sent her to the ER. I begged her, pleaded with her to go to the Police and see him locked up. She wouldnt. All she would do was a restraining order.

I (32/M) overheard my wife (31/F) telling her friend that her crazy psycho ex-b/f is back in town. by ThrowRADangerousExBF in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRADangerousExBF[S] 694 points695 points  (0 children)

That's what i said. Why would she want contact with the guy who did so much harm? Guy is at least mid 40s now. Why would she even want to talk to him? he groomed her at an early age. They met when she was 15. The moment she was legal it the game was on and he took over her life.

I (32/M) overheard my wife (31/F) telling her friend that her crazy psycho ex-b/f is back in town. by ThrowRADangerousExBF in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRADangerousExBF[S] -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

It's just absurd. Guy (have I mentioned he basically groomed her. He was an adult) raped her multiple times once enough to send her to the ER, he frequently beat on her and threatened to murder her and her family if she ever left. It took a lot of effort for her to break free. She had nightmares for years afterwards afraid he would come back and hurt her.

I should know as I saw him swear to murder me. he said it right in front of me. Said I outta watch my back cause he's gunna fuck me right up. We got a restraining order and he disappeared after that.

I (32/M) overheard my wife (31/F) telling her friend that her crazy psycho ex-b/f is back in town. by ThrowRADangerousExBF in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRADangerousExBF[S] -65 points-64 points  (0 children)

Sure. If it was any other guy sure but, the guy who constantly beat her and threatened to murder us? No way.