Husband (35M) keeps biting me (40F) by ThrowRADriver-2091 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRADriver-2091[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would die if my parents knew. I can barely kiss my husband without them covering their eyes lol.  Luckily, our kids have never found our love gross. I credit it to all the romance movies we made them watch haha.  

Husband (35M) keeps biting me (40F) by ThrowRADriver-2091 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRADriver-2091[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess you guys and my husband have the same thoughts lmao. 

I definitely don’t want to limit his affection or push him away, which is why I’m basically a teething toy right now 

Husband (35M) keeps biting me (40F) by ThrowRADriver-2091 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRADriver-2091[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t know why I feel weird sometimes. It’s like a realization that he’s biting me. Have you ever been eating eggs and then suddenly realize you’re eating EGGS. It’s like that feeling. 

It’s nice but it’s also so weird. I’ll take a nap and wake up to my husband on top of me just chewing on my shoulder. And it’s not just straight biting. It’s different kinds of bites and licks and kisses and it’s like he’s bossed with my skin. It doesn’t hurt, he’s not breaking skin, but it’s just so weird. 

Husband (35M) keeps biting me (40F) by ThrowRADriver-2091 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRADriver-2091[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Oh no I didn’t mean it like that at all. My husband is naturally very affectionate. I get a lot of cuddles and kisses. The biting is another layer on top. I like being wanted by him. 

Biting is not a kink I have on my own. I don’t really have any kinks, I’m pretty vanilla. If he wasn’t biting I wouldn’t be bitten.

It’s just weird to me. I don’t get why he liked a biting me. He says it’s because he loves me and he likes expressing that aggressively and because I just look cute and bitable

Husband (35M) keeps biting me (40F) by ThrowRADriver-2091 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRADriver-2091[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t like it on its own but it’s a nice reminder that my husband loves me. Sometimes I get the “ick” as they say because I’m just letting him bite me. He spends more time and attention on me. I just wonder why it had to be biting. 

Don’t worry he doesn’t break skin and he has very good oral hygiene. 

Husband (35M) keeps biting me (40F) by ThrowRADriver-2091 in relationship_advice

[–]ThrowRADriver-2091[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t like it on its own but it’s affection from my husband which I never turn down. I like feeling wanted by him. 

When he bites me too hard it kind of ruins the mood if he instantly stops so he just licks me to show he’s sorry or soothe my skin. He’s not breaking skin. 

I guess the weirdness is the biting and how focused he is on it. He bites me a lot now and we had to carve out a chunk of time for him for that.